Can't honesty remember the thread and actually date this happened but I will never forget the lesson learned.
Some time ago I was seeking information on living a balanced financial life basically and clubbing.
Papi chulo said in effect " if you feel like spending at the club so don't ; if you feel like saving so do it "
Not an exact quote but the information is the same and ever since then I have in different words and phrases mulled this over and over in different aspects in my financial life especially when it came down to an either or decision.
Because of this I know club like I lift weights. As a beginner weightlifter I used schedule and programs but later in life my lifting is all instinctual and so is my strip club spending
Because of this I club only during when I must go and if the desire of saving or buying or investing into something else is more over powering then I do that instead
I have found more happiness and success because of this information and for that I honestly say thank you papi chulo for sharing this wisdom with me
Good times bra