Need ideas
JohnSmith69
layin low but staying high
After several months apart, the DS and I are going to have a date soon. I want to do something special for our reunion. What are some suitable ideas for activities that are worthy of the ultimate stripper? Anal sex and marriage are not options.
So far I'm considering
Going to a strip club and having a threesome in the VIP.
Going to a strip club and getting a dancer we both want to come back to our hotel room with us.
Doing a porn video of our sex together like what I used to do with video girl.
Other ideas?
So far I'm considering
Going to a strip club and having a threesome in the VIP.
Going to a strip club and getting a dancer we both want to come back to our hotel room with us.
Doing a porn video of our sex together like what I used to do with video girl.
Other ideas?
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I would skip the strip club, take her to a nice hotel, enjoy one another's company for several hours, and order room service.
To add an item from your list of choices, I'd take video of her stripping naked and also of the sex.
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1. GoPro, buy the smallest one which is around $200. Buy a 64gb micro SDcard and that thing can record for a good two hours. They make little handles for them that look like half a billy club that you mount them on. It can continuously take photos or record video and the quality is excellent. Note - just don't turn the lights down too low.
2. Bed restraints - these are cuffs that go on the ankles and wrists and the straps go under any mattress. She goes nuts when I tie her up and blindfold her, drenching her with heated massage oil and candle wax.
3. Exotic hotel room - I told you about this before - there are several places where you can rent a room with its own private indoor pool. It's amazing. There's places in Chicago, Poconos and Toledo off the top of my head, sure there's many more. We have used this special hotel room 4 times over the past 6 months - it's that cool to keep going back. We have agreed we would rather spend a night in that room over going on a weekend trip somewhere.
If elsewhere find something equally classy! Dinner and a night out then something kinky. Not Kinky Boots, just plain kinky!
I'm going to suggest having her rim you until you're ready to blow, then cumming in her mouth! Many of the weirdos on here think rimjobs are gross, or a joke, or (inexplicably for male-female rimming) gay. Trust me: getting your butthole licked = super brilliant!
Absolutely no joke! Try it and you'll be extolling the virtues of rimming! ;)
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worthy of an epic midlife crisis. Is @Smith still paying her, or this really a "date."
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She's bisexual and likes strip clubs so that's why I had that idea. But I agree that might not be best for a reunion. I might save it for later but the little head really likes that idea.
London guy, we have done those types of dates dozens of times. We have also done the dinner and hang out in the hotel room for hours many times. I'm looking for something new and exciting.
Shailynn good ideas thanks. I already have a go pro. I used it to video me and video girl having sex in the shower. The restraints idea sounds fun. I've never done hat before but I think the DS would trust me enough to do it. Rhat would be really hot in video. And I'll look into the hotel rooms. I've taken her to the ritz Carlton and other 5 star hotels before but never one like you describe.
I do agree that a threesome is not the best idea for a reunion. But it's on my list for sometime soon.
Shadowcat's idea is my favorite. But they live too far apart to make that happen. Unfortunately.
Any other respectful ideas are appreciated.
Can't go wrong there.
If you have some restaurants you like.
Before I was married I was always having to use movies for dates, and I hate that. So I turned to high culture, the San Jose Symphony, Theater Companies, and then Museums in the daytime. Also some concerts at Stanford.
More what I like now is showing girls things I am involved in, like my various work places and introducing her to people, done as an appendage to a lunch date. So it is not just consumerism.
Everyone needs to eat, and I have never found a girl who does not like restaurants. This is a good kind of impromptu date, leaving her very little time to get nervous about it. Like call her and plan on picking her up in less than 2 hours.
One idea, which is not mine, is to take the girl daytime shopping in the funky area of town, the area where they have antique stores, comic book stores, thrift stores, etc. Where I live that would be Bascom Ave, near the Pink Poodle, or another one on Park Avenue near Lincoln. Could be in conjunction with a lunch date. Also, daytime is good if you are planning on then spending the night time after with your cock buried in her.
I've often taken girls to planetarium shows. And the Rosicrucian Egyptian Museum has always worked out well, as has the California Academy of Science in Golden Gate Park in San Francisco. Day time.
Fremont Peak Astronomy Club and Observatory, near San Juan Bautista.
Berkeley Lawrence Hall of Science, with very small planetarium.
But in the future, it will all be events put on by the organization I am building, because the idea will be to get the girl inducted into said, and that will be an alternative to consumer culture.
We've talked about this before, I would not take a girl to a strip club. Maybe a swingers club.
Regular nite club? For me that is for meeting girls.
Maybe other people have better ideas than I.
Art Cinema's have worked well. And some of this is being influenced by the sorts of girls I have gone out with, and also with the ways I've wanted to steer the relationship.
It is not available at anytime you want it, but taking a girl to see a Shakespeare play preformed is really good. Sometimes these are outdoors. Lots and lots of plays I have taken girls to. These can be set up in advance, but you have to be able to get tickets.
Maybe I am thinking along the lines of Comrades Marx and Engels, suggesting very highbrow recreation. :)
John, for you I would suggest a Swinger's Club, and one which is not so stodgy and the people a bit younger and less likely to be married.
Maybe now no longer married, you would like to take your girl on a little overnight trip? Maybe that would be better, and emphasize to her that it is not to be limited as it was when you were married?
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John, if you want sex ideas, then just get her to do a photo modeling session for you. You supply her with what she is to wear, and that always makes it fun.
If you don't already know, you will have much to learn about lighting and reflectors. Good still indoor photography is not that easy. Actually video can be easier.
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