Mary has a question. An ethical question.
Is it rong if I recreate sex acts/adventures taught to me by a former lover with my current lover? I'm using the term lover here in the sense of someone that I fuck bareback. The former girl taught me these things, and I experienced them for the first time with her, but now I want to recreate them with a new girl. While I'm doing these things with the new girl, it is almost inevitable that I will, at least in part, be thinking about the former girl who taught me these wonderful things. The little head says that this feels right, but he often lies.


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I don't think this is the place to talk about ethics
I don't see anything wrong w/ it - anything that enhances the sexual experience is a win/win for both involved - just be careful you don't call her by the wrong name when climaxing
I see no ethical qualms. As long as you are considering her pleasure and satisfaction, too, I see your sexual fantasies as valid and healthy. :)
There JS69 goes again, wanting another DS to shove a dildo up his ass!!!!
No issues what so ever, I just wouldn't go volunteering how you learned such sexual act from to the current partner.
LMAO, shailynn John, what ever you learn, you learn. I used to think about other women I've had sex with. It enhanced the experience :)
Just ask yourself what a lawyer would do.
Actually, never-mind.
Most sex partners I've had have brought something new to the table and the things I like I've added to my repertoire. That's how we learn and improve. I haven't had sex with my wife in over 10 years and if I ever did, she'd know I've had lots of other partners because of all the new techniques I've learned.
Good points. I suspect that a few things that she's suggested are things she's enjoyed with other guys. So I guess it's all good.
JS69 - This should not be a problem for you. :)
Why is this even a question?
In the words of a Vine meme Ethics: "What are THOSE!" youtu.be
We are the sum total of our experiences, good and bad. There is no avoiding this inevitability. Whether you first tried something with your DS, CF, ATF, 1st GF, Wife or whomever, it is now and forever part of your repertoire.
That which has been learned cannot be unlearned; that which has been seen cannot be unseen.
Sorry Nina. I'm just very sensitive to possible ethical dilemmas and of course I strive diligently to always be onthe right side of any potentially controversial practice. Being alawyer it's an occupational hazard.
^^^ john you're high
there are lessons to learn from each experience.
Just don't let the words "Your sister likes it this way..." drop from your mouth as you try bringing back one of those fancy 'what was old is new again' moves.
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