Stopping the Cum

^^^ good advice

Also their is a technique you can do my squeezing your nuts and pulling down on them gently but firmly that stops your need to cum

Google it

Don't know how to help you with this one. It just comes down to self control. After 25 years of sex and easily 10K times having sex it's just learning to please the other person and learning how to control yourself. I could easily cum in 2 minutes flat if I wanted to but I don't. Granted, there are days when Mrs. Sea knows she needs to make me cum because we've got a lot to do and if I let her she'll have me finished in no time at all but normally I enjoy her so much I make sure she can't move before I let go. It drives her nuts when I hold out so long. Our normal regular ole sex lasts an hour. When we have the time it goes for 2 hours. Imagine a porno....that's our normal sex life. She feels so amazing and I want her to have that same feeling that I simply stay aware of my body. If I need to slow down or change rhythm I will. You just have to know your body as much as you know hers.

You need to think of something non sexual like Hillary Clinton.

LoL that's good. Reminds me of a few times I've been literally unable to contain myself and am just pounding Mrs. Sea like the world is ending. She has simply mentioned my mother and all feelings of uncontrollable climax have immediately subsided.

Shadow cat has the perfect solution. But I don't want to.

I stop the movement that will make me cum - so no more penetrating strokes (no in and out). I move it side to side - making her feel it stretching her out. It's unexpected with most girls - but it seems to make them feel it more and it prolongs my staying power.

Just pull out and eat her pussy then change positions

The only thing that has ever worked for me was to stop smoking weed.

Fart

Do math problems in your head. It works....

Ask yourself "what would lapdanceking82 do?" The answer is cum really fast, but you'll also be thinking about cumming in your pants so it will slow you down!

If you're past the point of no return, it's all over.

Usually I'll pull out and eat her pussy for a while. I like eating pussy, but I don't cum from doing it.

Or, I blast a load in her, have her suck on me while she plays with herself, gets me hard again, and I fuck her some more.

John, you're getting into the realm of tantric sex.

Sexual arousal in both men and women starts when the sympathetic nervous system ( fight or flight ) backs off and lets the parasympathetic take over ( feed and breed ). This is also why sometimes there is no wood too. It can't be approached as an ordinary assertive action.

So when the sympathetic, in remission, feels that it has gone on long enough, then there is orgasm.

So if you try and actively stop yourself from ejaculating, you are actually causing the sympathetic to take over and causing yourself to ejaculate.

The way to let it go on longer is to stop fighting it, stop fighting the emotional intensity.

So looking into your partner's eyes, feeling her muscle tensions and listening to her breathing, and then feeling how energy flows through her and through you and she together, and where the resonance places are, allows sex to go on without much of a time limit.

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Usually I make sure she is satisfied before I ever penetrate, but sometimes I am just too damn horny. Those times it is just about my pleasure. My wife understands that sometimes we need to be a little selfish.

I forgot my new sure fire method (to delay firing) - this works every time!

I think of one of SJG's posts - and that stops it! Of course it's a challenge to stay hard if it's a long ass post -

" Usually I make sure she is satisfied before I ever penetrate"

Women have an extremely high capacity.

:)

SJG

Lol

Read some StripperWeb on your smartphone

^^^^ You use your smartphone for that kind of masochism?

SJG

For me the only thing that works is pulling out for a bit until I'm enough away from d edge - doesn't work 100% of d time but often does

There are ways of increasing the emotional intensity and the sharing aspect of it. Maybe this amounts to also slowing down too. But it also means letting the parasympathetic nervous system run it, rather open ended.

I like to use a mixture of sort g-spot massaging strokes where I hold the girl's knees up some, and then sporadic but very deliberate deep strokes, bringing her knees back down. And with those deep strokes I purposely introduce some churning to let air get out.

This means there will be vacuum on the short strokes.

Then again it is just feeling the energy flows and looking into her eyes. But when all the way in, I can stop and engage in real gentle DFKing, or nipple licking and sucking. I use alternating patterns. But it is most definitely not jack hammering or racing to the finish.

Usually I can get her going so that with each of the deep strokes she has at least a small climax.

Needless to say, this can go on a very long time. At the end of it, which is when I decide to cum, she is not sore, but by the colors showing in her face she looks like she has fucked 20 guys, and she is in pure bliss.

SJG

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I also make sure she's satisfied before I put my dick in her. I certainly don't pull out and eat her pussy, I don't want to be tasting my dick.

What would Lopaw do? That is the question.