Stopping the Cum
JohnSmith69
layin low but staying high
Here's the scenario. Happens all the time. You're inside your DS. Bare back. She's perfect, every sex dream you ever had all rolled to one.
You are going to cum. This is just too wonderful. But she's not there yet. If she is to be pleased, and she most certainly is, then you must hold off while still fucking her.
Question: How do you delay an orgasm that feels like a freight train bearing down on you? Note: slowing down, going out and in, or any different movement, works slightly but not for long.. I'm too in love with her body for that to work for long.
Help a brotha out.
You are going to cum. This is just too wonderful. But she's not there yet. If she is to be pleased, and she most certainly is, then you must hold off while still fucking her.
Question: How do you delay an orgasm that feels like a freight train bearing down on you? Note: slowing down, going out and in, or any different movement, works slightly but not for long.. I'm too in love with her body for that to work for long.
Help a brotha out.
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Also their is a technique you can do my squeezing your nuts and pulling down on them gently but firmly that stops your need to cum
Google it
Usually I'll pull out and eat her pussy for a while. I like eating pussy, but I don't cum from doing it.
Or, I blast a load in her, have her suck on me while she plays with herself, gets me hard again, and I fuck her some more.
Sexual arousal in both men and women starts when the sympathetic nervous system ( fight or flight ) backs off and lets the parasympathetic take over ( feed and breed ). This is also why sometimes there is no wood too. It can't be approached as an ordinary assertive action.
So when the sympathetic, in remission, feels that it has gone on long enough, then there is orgasm.
So if you try and actively stop yourself from ejaculating, you are actually causing the sympathetic to take over and causing yourself to ejaculate.
The way to let it go on longer is to stop fighting it, stop fighting the emotional intensity.
So looking into your partner's eyes, feeling her muscle tensions and listening to her breathing, and then feeling how energy flows through her and through you and she together, and where the resonance places are, allows sex to go on without much of a time limit.
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I think of one of SJG's posts - and that stops it! Of course it's a challenge to stay hard if it's a long ass post -
Women have an extremely high capacity.
:)
SJG
SJG
I like to use a mixture of sort g-spot massaging strokes where I hold the girl's knees up some, and then sporadic but very deliberate deep strokes, bringing her knees back down. And with those deep strokes I purposely introduce some churning to let air get out.
This means there will be vacuum on the short strokes.
Then again it is just feeling the energy flows and looking into her eyes. But when all the way in, I can stop and engage in real gentle DFKing, or nipple licking and sucking. I use alternating patterns. But it is most definitely not jack hammering or racing to the finish.
Usually I can get her going so that with each of the deep strokes she has at least a small climax.
Needless to say, this can go on a very long time. At the end of it, which is when I decide to cum, she is not sore, but by the colors showing in her face she looks like she has fucked 20 guys, and she is in pure bliss.
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