Here is a quote apparently written by a stripper

"but don't you know what people think of men who go to stripclubs? PATHETIC and forever UNDESIRABLE. No women [sp] has or will ever want you. Not physically, not emotionally, not spiritually, nothing. No one wants you. You have to pay for attention. You have to pay for conversation. You have to pay to be touched or to touch. You have to pay for basic human experiences. You have to pay money because nothing about you merits it besides money. A few, some, many, most (whichever way you want to look at it) strippers are using the money to better themselves and their families. They take something negative (you and your $) and turn it into something useful and positive. What do you do with your stripclub experience? NOTHING! Because that is all you are, all you deserve, all you will ever have, Nothing. You all want us. You need us. Us as people. Whether it is our bodies or our time, it is still us you want. We want money, not you. Money is not a part of you, it is something you have - it's a thing. No one wants you because of you."