Strippers who COMPLAIN about customers LOOKING FOR A GIRLFRIEND in strip clubs

I was reading on another website about strippers who were COMPLAINING that customers were looking for a GIRLFRIEND when going to strip clubs and did not want dances (Some of the strippers complaining about this may also be complaining about SEXUAL SERVICES such as SEX and BLOWJOBS being sold in strip clubs) It may be well known that MANY STRIPPERS HAVE MET THEIR BOYFRIEND/HUSBAND IN THE CLUB when they were working as a stripper and the BOYFRIEND/HUSBAND was a customer. Don't these strippers realize that some folks already know about this? Do some strippers think that customers will spend MONEY on them without any expectations? Do they think that customers will pay for PHONY AFFECTION?