Middle Class Flirting: Grinding on the Buddies Wife.
GACA
Un-retired: Met my ATF. Married her. Divorcing her.
I've notice that when I'm hanging out with my "middle class" friends there is a lot of sexual flirtation going on.
Case in point, I have oneset of acquaintances and the guy won't go out with his wife to the bars and clubs, inevitably through the course of the night while he is at home and we are out the wife and and will end up dancing and grinding away like I'm paying her for a high two way contact lap dance. I'll even peck her neck and ears because heavy drinking is involved. Now we haven't slept together or anything like that but this flirtation continues into the home in front of hubby with her sitting on my lap in front of him and pretending to be lovers.
This always, always happens not just with that couple but every "middle class" couple I hang out with. And yes every once in a while it has led to a lot more than flirting.
I don't get it personally. Once or twice is funny, but if a guy I barely kniw is flirting with my girl every time they see each other that's a problem.
Case in point, I have oneset of acquaintances and the guy won't go out with his wife to the bars and clubs, inevitably through the course of the night while he is at home and we are out the wife and and will end up dancing and grinding away like I'm paying her for a high two way contact lap dance. I'll even peck her neck and ears because heavy drinking is involved. Now we haven't slept together or anything like that but this flirtation continues into the home in front of hubby with her sitting on my lap in front of him and pretending to be lovers.
This always, always happens not just with that couple but every "middle class" couple I hang out with. And yes every once in a while it has led to a lot more than flirting.
I don't get it personally. Once or twice is funny, but if a guy I barely kniw is flirting with my girl every time they see each other that's a problem.
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https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=QvyyYDfe0I… (Great episode)
What are the rules to swinging, I'm going to explore this.
This has happened to me more than a few times and being oblivious I probably missed out on a few opportunities.
Sorry to say, but the first word that popped into my head was DENSE!
Understood, but if she instigates AND you desire her, I sure would push the limits and see where they are. Of course, this could have the effect of ending it all, friendship included.
Anyway, if this is someone I'm close with like a life long friend that I grew up with, I personally would never ever risk ruining the relationship by trying to fuck my friend's wife even if he was okay with it. Way too awkward and to me a long lasting friendship is more valuable than a romp in the hay.
I’ve experienced both circumstances. One, the wife was extremely flirtatious but turned out to be nothing but a tease. The other, we got down, and it caused a great deal of awkwardness that damaged the friendship.
Blue balls or a ruined friendship. Not worth the game.
If you value your friendship with the guys, I'd run. And do not interpret the attraction the women have towards you, as anything but utilitarian.
I'm thinking of creating a thread about The System, to even out my karma :) :)
It sounds like they're into being desired and maybe fantasize about being desired in the way they imagine strippers are desired. That doesn't mean they want to fuck you. Even strippers don't (usually) *want* to fuck you. They'll just do it if a large enough incentive is offered.
;)