If you want to make a stripper into your GIRLFRIEND may want AVOID BUYING DANCES
If you are looking to make a stripper who you LIKE into your GIRLFRIEND then you may want to AVOID BUYING DANCES from her and also AVOID PAYING her for CONVERSATION
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Strippers are indeed very contemptuous of customers who think spending money is the way to win their affection. They do not think that they are prostitutes or escorts or whores!
If your personality isn't appealing enough to get her to talk to you just based on just that, "tricking" her into talking to you by paying isn't going to help matters.
Spending money in a bid to get her attention or affection makes you look like a desperate pathetic loser: the opposite type of personality that women find attractive.
Some strippers are more comfortable with what they do and if you buy a few LDs from them, they won't automatically put you in the PL category (most will do it after the first LD you buy). With these if you keep getting LDs after what is deemed to be a reasonable amount of time (3 meetings) to determine that you like them 'as people' then you again fall into the PL category for not having the balls to reveal your true intentions.
Bottom line: If you like a stripper and want to date her it's best to spend no money on her at work (some tipping on stage is ok since strippers like kid themselves that they are really just "exotic dancers".) If you do spend money on dances you have probably fucked it up, but you might have been lucky and run into a dancer who is cool with her job, in that case still don't "visit" her more than three times before you ask her out.