Tell him you'll give him a great time and clean up the mess/evidence. Make sure you aren't wearing any loud cologne or glitter; and don't be smoking, especially weed.
Don't wear bronzer or self tanner on your ass either. I was busted when my SO did my lanundry and found my lap and shirt (which she untucked) coveresd with bronzer. Shit didn't come out.
You want to gain his trust, and assure him that he won't get caught, and he's not really cheating anyway. Lean in close and talk in his ear, like a conspirator, just the two of you. Tell him you're just going to cuddle a little bit, not do anything serious. Talk to him like a friend. You'll probably have to invest some time.
When you're done, send him to tuscl so we can tell him he's been had.
First of all the guy's SO most likely does not know he has gone to a strip club and even less likely has given him detailed instructions about what to do when he is there.
Chances are he has made a moral bargain with himself..."I haven't really cheated if I just look at the girls on the stage; after all that isn't really any different than porn" and he is using his SO as a way of saying that it really isn't his choice.
Another possibility is that he is too broke to go to the VIP and is using the SO as an excuse to not admit that he is broke.
So, if they guy is using it as a cover for his being broke then there is nothing you can do...the dude is broke.
If it is a moral deal he has made for himself it may also be hopeless but you might be able to get him to make some other moral deal with himself. So you might say "the stage is just so distant, it is much more fun showing you up close. You know sometimes as a game I do a dance where we see how close I can get to you without ever touching." So the guy can make a deal with himself that says 'OK, it is still just looking, no touching'.
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I don't like pushy dancers so I'd say leave them alone and go find someone else.
When you're done, send him to tuscl so we can tell him he's been had.
Chances are he has made a moral bargain with himself..."I haven't really cheated if I just look at the girls on the stage; after all that isn't really any different than porn" and he is using his SO as a way of saying that it really isn't his choice.
Another possibility is that he is too broke to go to the VIP and is using the SO as an excuse to not admit that he is broke.
So, if they guy is using it as a cover for his being broke then there is nothing you can do...the dude is broke.
If it is a moral deal he has made for himself it may also be hopeless but you might be able to get him to make some other moral deal with himself. So you might say "the stage is just so distant, it is much more fun showing you up close. You know sometimes as a game I do a dance where we see how close I can get to you without ever touching." So the guy can make a deal with himself that says 'OK, it is still just looking, no touching'.
No they should not.