She is a sweet, cute, very affectionate, 23 yo spinner. I have spent time with her on 3 visits. on the last one it was a 5 hour marathon. During that time only one other guy got a lap dance from her and it was only after she asked my permission.I got her life history and including that she had been with her current boy friend for 4 years. She wants to meet me OTC for lunch/dinner. We swapped phone numbers. She is only the 4th dancer to ever get mine. She said that if her boy friend answered to not hang up. Tell him who you are and leave a message with him.
What would you do? I cannot see this ever going further than meeting OTC to get something to eat but she is such a delight to be around, that I think that I have to follow through. Your thoughts?
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last commentHow in the know is the BF about her "job" & activities? Has she hinted or directly mentioned any possibility of a sex with the OTC? Have you SC hinted or directly mentioned any possibility of a sex with the OTC?
I say go for it. Even if it is just to get something to eat. You say she is Delightful to be around? Enjoy it & her as much as you can. Ignore what all the other experts here say that is negative, unless you truly think that those negative opinions have validity. Hey I'm a Romantic & I think this is worth pursuing SC. I would in your place!
At some point soon I'll PM you about a similar experience that I'm having & I think you'll understand why I'm saying what I'm saying to you. Good Luck SC!!!
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Any dancer who's boyfriend is an answering service for OTC is a pimp. He doesn't have a girlfriend, he has property for sale.
I would not make any "appointments" thru a pimp.
Just my opinion.
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I think pablo makes a good point.
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I think Pablo makes a good point.
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I would be very careful and to trust your cat like instincts...get some "info" on the girl from someone you trust at the club so you can make a thorough analysis of the possible consequences of your analytical decision. Remember, knowledge is power!
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sc,
You're 70, GO FOR IT, my friend!
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Don't go to her place, but enjoy it, otherwise.
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Shadow, be careful but hey, if she is hot, then she is hot! I would suggest the, if boyfriend does ever answer, you leave a very noncontroversial message using you oldest creakiest voice!
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What does Gridget think?
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Something about that would bother me too much.
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If you're looking for a "real" relationship what are you doing in a strip club?
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What the hell? You are the big cat of tuscl. You don't need any advice from us.
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SC, you dawg....Whatever you do, I'd keep it between you and the spinner....Would not interact with the bf (pimp or otherwise)whatsoever....no good can come from that....
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and if my parole officer answers dont hang up
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SC, btw, enjoy the hell out of this....Personally, I love the 5 Hour Marathons.....
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Go forward but with more caution than you might normally use.
There's a lot of possibilities of what this could be, including what Pablo said: pimp.
But... he could really not care, he could accept the fact that you're a potential money source, she could be deceiving him, etc.
Go forth and conquer.
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Shadow pump and pop that pink pussy !
Drac baby.....I agree with you and if you would pm me that story 2.....I believe it would be a good read and help me along my clubbing ways as well
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farmerart - of course I don't need anybody's advice. I know exactually how to handle the situation. I posted this just to get everyones opinion and stir the pot.
I will proceed with no expectations other than enjoying a meal OTC with a cute young babe. She does live 240 miles from me. I am not going to make any special trips just to see her but when I do plan my next visit, probably 3 or 4 weeks from now, I will phone her.
Clubber - her dances are Dazzling.
SuperDude - If gridget were still a part of my life, I would not find myself in this position.
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Well as previously stated the BF is certainly a pimp of some sort. A lot of escorts seem to have this type of relationship with there bf's. The chances that you find a real relationship out of an SC are pretty low anyway. So I would see what she if offering. Gotta be some sort of hook up or friends with benefit type of deal. I am surprised she hasn't approached you about anything already.
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....whoa. Let's back up. Didn't anyone see this red flag? she gave you her HOME number. Why not her cell? That in itself seems odd.
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Go for it man! But keep the pimp thing others have mentioned in mind.
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" she gave you her HOME number. Why not her cell? That in itself seems odd"
They can be the same. Lots of people have given up Land lines.
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Alucard is correct. Hers is a cell phone. I have both but gave her my home number as a never have my cell phone on unless I am expecting a call or am out of town.
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For a 7-8 bucks, you can run a phone number on a phone tracer website and get the name and owner of the phone (registered to her or bf?). Using the name, you can then access criminal records. A little money spent, but worth it if it saves you from walking into an ambush.
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Damn sinclair. I am not an idiot. It is for lunch/dinner. I know two other dancers that socialize with her OTC and a TUSCL member that posts on this forum, that knows her and her BF socially. I am safe.
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"Damn sinclair. I am not an idiot. It is for lunch/dinner. I know two other dancers that socialize with her OTC and a TUSCL member that posts on this forum, that knows her and her BF socially. I am safe."
I think a good many guys here think that all Dancers are out to "GET" us. It is possible for a Dancer to be a truly NICE person.
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sc is wise, beyond even his ADVANCED years. :)
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"Alucard is correct. Hers is a cell phone. I have both but gave her my home number as a never have my cell phone on unless I am expecting a call or am out of town."
I find it odd that her boyfriend would answer her cell phone.
Again, big red flag that it is her "business" number. No safety issues, but takes the fun out of it when you know she openly has a pimp
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"takes the fun out of it when you know she openly has a pimp'
Wait, what are saying these girls really don't have a "thing" for older men?
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"Wait, what are saying these girls really don't have a "thing" for older men?"
We NEED Love too. :) ;)
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"sc is wise, beyond even his ADVANCED years. :)"
IMHO SC is wise enough to handle his affairs properly & safely WITHOUT all of us trying to do that job for him.
There are a good many members here, especially younger ones who should follow his lead in how to conduct themselves.
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If you enjoy it, go for it.
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