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nackweasel
Texas
1- How much is customary tip after a good lapdance?
2- How much in your experience are extras?
3- Best nights to go?

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GoVikings
14 years ago
1. Depends on how long your paper is, but I'd say betweeen $2.00 and $5.00

2. I've always heard about guys getting 'extra's' during or after lap dances, but it's never happended to me before. I guess you have to slip them an extra money while you're back there. Is that how it works?

3. Thursday, Friday and Saturday nights are probably the best nights to go. Reason being is because the dancer selection will be better. But those are also the times where strip clubs are extremely busy, so be prepared for a big, rowdy crowd.
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vincemichaels
14 years ago
(1) $0 (2) It depends on how much SS you are willing to tolerate. (3) Any night, they always want your money.
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GoVikings
14 years ago
vincemichaels, what does SS stand for?
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harrydave
14 years ago
1) 0$ - just pay the standard dance price
2) In my personal experience, somewhere between $0 and way-too-fucking-much
3) For mileage, days are better; for girl quality, go nights. Personally, I don't like Fri and Sat nights; the young guys fuck it up for us old farts.
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MisterGuy
14 years ago
SS = Stripper Shit

"1- How much is customary tip after a good lapdance?"

You don't have to tip at all, but I've tipped as much as the cost of another LD on the rare occasion that I thought it was necessary.

"2- How much in your experience are extras?"

In depends on your location, what you want, and how gullible you are, but they can run from nothing to as much as a few hundred dollars or more.
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samsung1
14 years ago
1. As for tips, it is stupid to tip after a LD but sometimes I will do it by rounding to the nearest $20. So if LD is $35 I will tip $5. Or if LD is $30 I will tip $10. But again, don't tip unless the dancer does an exceptionally good job and does not give any bullshit about the "rules". Better to just buy a second lap dance from the gal if she does a good job than tip her.

2. As for extras, it really depends on the city and local LE. If I am in a city like Detroit or Akron I know I will be getting extras pretty easy without even having to ask for them. If I am in a city like Columbus or Dayton then I know extras are damn near impossible so I don't bother. The best action I can expect for in Columbus is some good grinding.

3. Best nights sometimes depends on what promotions the club is running (free buffets, free pizza, dance specials, drink specials, etc). Friday/Saturday nights are best if you want some eye candy. Afternoons during the week is best to go if you want to avoid the rip off bitches. Personally my favorite times to go is Monday night or Friday afternoon.
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gatorfan
14 years ago
1. Did she suck your cock?
2. Look up CBJ on the Nasdaq and see what it is trading for.
3. Best night is the night she is sucking your cock.

I think I answered all the questions.
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sauternes
14 years ago
1. I don't usually tip for LDs, and if they ask for one they won't get any more $$ from me.

2. Check out the going rate for escorts in your area. IMO it would be a rare stripper that is worth paying more than a working girl for extras.

3. I agree with harrydave - mileage is better on dayshift. I usually avoid Friday nights ... I'd rather have an easy time getting a seat, enjoying the experience, and not encountering a$$holes.
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samsung1
14 years ago
sauternes makes a good point about if a dancer asks for a tip they will lose my business. I have gone ahead and tipped a few dancers after they asked me for a tip (more like demanded one) just to avoid any potential hassles but best to just stand your ground and refuse.
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Rod8432
14 years ago
My 2cents nackweasel:
1- How much is customary tip after a good lapdance?
ANSWER: I don't think tipping is warranted or necessarily expected in most cases. There are times however, when a girl is over-the-top good, and I want to reward that effort with an extra $5 - $10, depending on how many dances I've gotten. If the girl makes me cum, especially if she reaches inside and/or does some have stick shifting, then I reward more. The way I figure it is at $10 per dance, two or three dances with a cum warrants a $10 - $20 tip. Even with that, I had a great time with stress relief for under $50 - a good deal compared to the VIP.

2- How much in your experience are extras?
ANSWER: If you're at a club like Bogart's in Inkster MI, you're talking usually half-again to double the dance price - so at $20 per dance for a couple dances ($40), tack on another $20 - $40 for sloppy HJ or a BBJ. FS (which I've never done ITC) would probably add another $20 - $40 on top of that.

3- Best nights to go?
ANSWER: For the possibility of extras, you can't beat the day time girls, which confuses me because you'd think LE vice might be more likely to work during regular business hours. Perhaps the clubs are a bit more liberal with extras during the day because it brings in more business during that otherwise slow time.

I generally skip weekend nights for the reasons stated above - too many college buddies, guys with their dates, and otherwise undesirable goof-offs who don't get out much tend to diminish my SC enjoyment.
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samsung1
14 years ago
one scam I laugh about is when you use a credit card at a strip club and they ask you to sign the receipt and there is a line to leave a tip. I usually just cross a line through it or put a null sign although I have been stupid enough to write in a tip before.
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snowtime
14 years ago
1. Usually no tip for a lap dance. If you like the dance enough just give her more money for another dance.
2. If you are doing multiple dances that should cover any extras she is inclined to provide. If you are going to pay for extras settle on the amount before the session starts. 40-60 -100 seems to be the average charge for extras (HJ/BJ/FS).
3. Daytime dancers seem to provide better mileage but nightime dancers are usually, not always, hotter. Weekend nights bring out the best looking dancers, but in some clubs the size of the crowd will limit any extra fun.
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lil_ol_me
14 years ago
1- How much is customary tip after a good lapdance?
For a “good” lapdance, I mean “GOOD” I'll tip between 50% and 100% of the dance.

2- How much in your experience are extras?
Varies dancer to dancer and how badly the rent money is needed, and how many customers may be waiting in line to take your spot.

3- Best nights to go?
I like day times or early evening over late night, typically less customers, ergo more variety for you to sample with less competition.

Oh – I never tip in advance, learned this lesson early on...
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steve229
14 years ago
"Better to just buy a second lap dance from the gal"

Usually no tip for a lap dance. If you like the dance enough just give her more money for another dance."

What if you like the second dance too?
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Otto22
14 years ago
While I rarely tip for basic LDs, I occasionally give an extra $5 if I have had four or more dances from the same girl and they have been quality. Extras depend entirely upon the city and club you are in. As mentioned above Detroit has redefined "extra" to become "expected." Orlando "extras" mean the dancer kissed your cheek. Best service comes on slower nights like Sunday or midweek.
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troop
14 years ago
regarding lapper tips, i won't unless a dancer goes beyond the call of duty. example, recently a girl gave me 3 20 dollar dances for 30 dollars total and she pretty much let me grope her anywhere and suck her titties so that was definitely worth a few extra bucks ;)
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georgmicrodong
14 years ago
Sheesh, you guys are cheap shit assholes, you know that? :)) Though I suppose if I lived in places with lame ass lap dances, I might tend towards the same.

Since the purpose of a lap dance is to see how much of her body she'll let me grope, as well as how she feels about taking it outside, my tips depend on the result. Average for me is about $5 per dance. If she let's me get my fingers wet or reaches inside my pants, prolly a little more. If it's an air dance, well here's your air tip.
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dw.buck
14 years ago
1. $2 to $5 for a LD tip. if a single LD is over $15 each well i say the tip was built in.

2. depends on the girl i keep it around $40-75 (find the desperate one then you can get great bargins)

3. thur-fri-Sat nites are the best on off pay weeks, strippers expect the big spenders to be out that night and when they are dissapointed, your stocks have now risen
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how
14 years ago
1. It is ALL tip.
2. One Benji for everything; less for less
3. Too variable to tell
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vincemichaels
14 years ago
Gee, thanks George, I prefer the term thrifty, but whatever. I am not the dancers ATM. I buy dances, I don't tip, even if she turns into a ROB like samsung1 ran into with Destiny at Bogarts (here we go again, CT, LOL) I am retired, I am not going to spend every last cent of mine on entertainment. That's how I view it. When Knightline was down here in South Florida last week, at one point at the 3rd club we were at on Friday afternoon, I remarked to him I had spent my budget. On certain occasions I may exceed it, but then something else has to be foregone that week. I just got home from a visit to Tootsies and to Showgirls North. Tootsies is a fun place but overall, the dances don't meet my expectations, too many ROB's in my experience work the place. I won't tip them. I got one dance from a new ROB and stopped at that point. At Showgirls, I took advantage of the 2 for 1 special and got a 3rd dance from a prospective OTC dancer. If people want to tip, that's OK by me, but I don't have to, and I won't.
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Jmoney007
14 years ago
1. im gonna assume that you don't mean just one single LD but a series of them by the same girl back to back, if she is good then a good 5 or 10 should cover it, BUT only if its that good, if not then don't even bother tipping, oh and if they have to ask for a tip then they really don't deserve one, tips should only come if you come(just kidding) dancers should be confident in knowing that if they did a good job then they don't really have to ask, besides theres not much money out there like it used to be so it they just have to get used to not expecting a tip after every LD with a customer.

2. there's no real set prices in this area, the dancers may try to overcharge thinking that they are all that when most are half of what they think they really are, in my experience, the hotter the woman, the more she will charge, so if you are on a budget, you may have to lower your expectations about 2-3 notches and go for the less pretty ones, if you are on a budget then you should skip this part because you have to have extra money to splurge if you want extras because the women aren't cheap.

3. like the others have said, evenings are better if you want eye candy, but if you want better mileage then day time is better.
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