Strippers in civies

One I remember well was in Key West. I had been out the night before. I was walking in a store and a woman comes up to me and asked, "How are you this morning?". I said, ok, but could be better. A bit of a hangover. Anyway, as the conversation continued, I had to ask if I should know her. She answered that I "knew" her last evening at her work. And I still couldn't remember her, but it seemed as though we had had a good time.

I saw an escort one time who I never saw personally, but who used to advertise heavily on the internet. I spotted her standing near me at a grocery store deli counter. As I glanced over, I instantly recognized her face and while not as stunning as her photoshopped internet pics, still damn good looking. It was evening and she was dressed to the nines; maybe picking up an item or two on the way home from, or going to, an appointment?

I said nothing, partly not wanting to freak her out, but also partly due to what I perceive to be a tacit agreement between providers and customers (even potential ones) to never acknowledge each other in public. Still, I had a little spring in my step as I left, like we shared a little sexy secret.

I love it when I run into then in their civies either coming or going from the club. A big turn-on, in fact. It's also a way to help sort out the ROBs, who usualy want no part of you when they are "out of uniform," while other dancers who are more down to earth will stop and talk.

First time I took a dancer out, she overdid things and dressed too slutty, thinking I would like that. Had to tell her to tone it down and dress more normal because our plans were always to have drinks and dinner first in very public places. She did from then on.

Another thing I notice is that the dancers who come across (to me) as high maintenance or who carry themselves as "top shelf" will also dress that way in civies.

The more humble dancers dress down as if to blend in with the masses.

I'm also struck by how much a hottie still looks like a hottie to me regardless of how she dresses. Hot is hot, I guess.

Ran into one in the grocery store a few weeks ago. In girls next door civies but with strking blond hair still a stand out feature. She's with a middle aged man, so I make a point of not "knowing" her. But after our paths literally crossed, I nodded and said hello. I don't want to mess up any dancer's real life, but this guy she was with did not look like a husband or S.O., so as I walked past her I was basically simple courteous with the nod and hello. A few days later she told me it was OK (he was her "uncle") and that I could have stopped and talked. My rule on that is, not unless they are alone or unless they initiate it.

I ran into a dancer in the parking lot as I was arriving. About 20 minutes later she comes over and sits with me and tells me she was about to leave, but decided to stay when she saw me. It was really early in the day and not many customers were in the club, so I sort of bought that. We talked for probably half hour and all was fine, but she ended up being a ROB, quoting outrageous prices for a lame lap dance. I didn't partake and she left pretty much pissed, saying I had wasted her time. I find out later that she got fired for doing extras in the CR. Got what she deserved imo.

On another occasion, I was reentering a club after having to go outside to make a phone call. A petite dancer that has turned into one of my favorites was leaving as I was coming back in. I knew she was short, but without the heels, she couldn't have been more than 4'9"! She stood up on her tiptoes, gave me a kiss, said she had fun, and to come back soon.

As some have said on here before, it's good to sit in a place where you can see the girls coming and going in their civvies. You know if a favorite is arriving and get a sense of a dancer's personality when she's off duty. As they leave, I've noticed some will speak and give you a hug and a thank you, while others will ignore you even though you've spent a lot of time and $ on them previously. Guess who I look for on the next visit?

A year ago or so, in my favorite club, A favorite dancer came over and sat with me in street clothes. She was getting ready to leave the club. I said "too bad. I wanted to get some dances from you". She said why don't we just go in the back and I will take care of you. I said that wouldn't be much fun with you in your street clothes. She then pulled up her sweat shirt to reveal no bra and then pulled her spandex pants fore ward to reveal that she was naked underneath. So we went to the back. I had one hand up her sweat shirt and the other down her pants. She had willy out and lubricated him with saliva. I busted a nut on the 3rd song. Getting a lap dance with a fully clothed dancer was a new one for me and hasn't been repeated. But I still get dances from her.

Fortunately or unfortunately, I worked as a bouncer at a club in columbus for a short while. Even though I was working there to protect the girls, most of them still acted lick Bitches in and out of the club. I had a much better time with the bartenders and servers OTC.

Anybody go to regular night clubs anymore? This topic makes me think back to a night at a regular night club (not strip). I saw 6 or more hot looking girls who were beyond drunk and out of control. You could plainly see a girl with her thong pulled aside fucking a guy right on one of those long club sofas. Others were making out with guys left and right around them with their tits and ass almost completely exposed. The party I was with was amazed, the females in our group were of course critical. I don't know if these girls were strippers, but it was out of control more than most strip clubs are in terms of public drunkeness at a regular club.

Gator, that sounds like South Beach... if so then yeah, it's a special place that can get far more wild than any strip club I've been in. I've never been in clubs anywhere else in this country that can come close to comparing. Though L.A. makes a good effort, the 2am closing rule puts a wet blanket on a lot of potential.

My ATF had one outfit she wore, but didn't like it much, but the customers did. I would have to help her on with it when she wore it. She'd come to the club in street clothes and change in the corner with me. And after her stage sets, I'd help again. It was enjoyable, even though she rarely wore it.

My experiences run the gamut from the awfulness of the one grandma dancer at my favorite club (she's awful to look at in her stripper clothes, but seeing her in regular clothes makes me wonder how anyone would ever think she was sexually appealing) to the awesomeness of seeing one of my old favorites go from her regular clothes to only her tennis shoes.

I stopped in on the way home from a roadtrip yesterday to one of our clubs here, right towards the end of the day shift. I didn't get a dance from my ATF, she was wedged in a corner with some guy in a booth, but after the shift change she stopped by on her way out wearing a sundress. Oh my, did she look great! I told her so, she smiled, we talked and then she left. What a nice way to end a trip. Not to mention the blow job I got a few minutes later back in the VIP room with another hottie. LOL

I was shopping with my wife one time in Ft. Lauderdale and I turned a corner and saw Shy Love, dressed up and sexy as hell standing there. She looked amazing in person, nbut, since I was with my wife I couldn't do anythong but gawk.

Notso, it was in South Beach. Crazy shit there, no need for strip clubs in Miami when they have topless beaches and sex-more skin at the regular night clubs.

Walkerman, if your wife wasn't there I doubt Shy Love would have gone down on you. Porn stars are the last to want to have sex on their off time.

Gator - No doubt about that. I just would have spoke to her. I have no illusions that she was going to blow me. I saw her feature at a West Palm club and i have been a huge fan ever since. I know enough to not be creepy though.

I didn't realize it was possible for a dancer to dress too slutty.

Rod8432: I saw an escort one time who I never saw personally...

Yeah, yeah, sure you didn't. ;-)

A few diff experiences of dancers in civvies:

1. Though I usually go to clubs after dark, one summer evening, I went at about 7:30 to my first ATF's club to see her dance one more time before she retired (she needed a steadier income). The club ROB was coming in late and arrived about 15 seconds before me. OMG, sunlight is not kind to her, and she dresses sluttier in civvies than on stage.

2. First time in one club that wasn't very busy (and on a weeknight), I was the only (or maybe one of two) customer for the last 45 minutes. So some dancers were hanging it up early. I had gotten a couple LDs from D earlier in the night, but she was one of the girls that quit early. I was getting a dance from T when D came out of the dressing room. She came over to tell T something. Without her distracting lingerie and f*ck-me heels on, I realized that she was a dead ringer for a girl I had major hots for in early college. The next time I was there, I got a VIP from her -- boy, were there a lot of different thoughts running through my head that night!

The best time I had was when my ATF left her dance bag in her car when she dropped it off at the garage. She came out to see me wearing her streets,which was a white farmer type sundress (sorry if you don't understand). To me that was the best she ever looked (sweet & innocent). Telling her that got me a big hug. She felt how much I liked it and said that she could that care of my problem. In the backroom she climbed on my lap and with her dress covering my bottom half I was free to let my shorts down. never felt more comfortable doing it in the club before. Now when I see her I call to make sure she brings the dress for me. Which she does, or one like it. That is why she is my FAV.

Many experiences. A few stand out.

When I lived in NY the club I went to didn't have parking, you parked on the street or a public lot. Walking to club and about a block away my cute little Brazillian fave says Hi. It was winter and she was bundled up head to toe but as cute as ever. I made some sort of comment about not seeing in so many clothes...

Another club had this somewhat older, skinny blonde that I didn't find particularly attactive. In fact I often thought to myself what is she doing here. She was friendly though and was friendly with a fave at the club. After leaving the club one day I went to Baja Fresh down the street. Waiting on line and who should walk in but blondie. She was MUCH hotter in her street clothes, couldn't believe it. I'd do her.

Similar to SC one day I got to the club late. After awhile my fave is heading out the door and spots me, wearing a cute sweat suit. Comes over and asks if I'd like a dance in her street clothes. Of course. Checks with the manager and he waives the house cut (50% on the dances) as technically she's completed her shift. We head back and she tells me she's a stickler for matching bra and panties. Helped her out of the sweats and sure enough she looked cute in her underwear.

I am not a big fan of huge, fake eyelashes, fake tan, and fishnet outfits, so IME most strippers look hotter in civies. I was in Rupp after a UK basketball game and saw one of the dancers from Rhino. I was on my cell phone, but she came up to me and gave me the best smile and a big hug. She looked fabulous in her UK tee shirt and jeans.