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Only with one dancer and one club worker. I only added them as friends after hanging out with them numerous times outside the club.

I'm leary about adding dancers as there's so much personal information available on facebook as well, depending on what you put on there.

I have a fake FB account with a fake email address that I use to keep track of a couple of girls. Not that a sufficiently motivated person couldn't figure out who is behind it if they wanted to, but it works.

I had one scary experience with a smart and aggressive dancer who wanted me to be her friend on MySpace, not Facebook. I agreed, got really nervous, and broke it off with her by telling her that her influence on my had helped me patch things up with my wife, and that we should thusly break off contact with each other. She agreed, and we parted friends. Haven't heard a peep from her for over six months, and that's good. For me personally, the best connections with strippers are the anonymous ones in the club, and it never goes beyond that. I can see some Facebook advantages for others with a different life style.

"I'm just wary that they might end up stalking me"

Has this ever happened (stripper "stalking" a customer?). Would be an interesting role reversal.

steve229, my guess is only if the customer was a celebrity, etc. Probably less than 1% of the strip club stalking cases involve a stripper stalking a customer.

Be prepared to get constant messages from the dancer asking you to come in to spend some time (money) with her.

Only one ex-dancer, but she is still a club worker.

I have a fake Facebook account that I sometimes use to communicate with a favorite. I would never consider using a real account, even if I weren't married.

"I don't wanna be your friend I wanna fuck you like I'm never gonna see you again"
-Kid Rock Soo Hot

I have a FB account with a phony first name which is on the busy card I give strippers. Would never use my first name. Two are FB friends, one I am doing (almost 2 yr) and one I did 75 times but married the guy who ran out on her when she was PG with 4th kid (she has 4 by 3 different men - I call this the 4-3 Defense LOL).

I like using their FB data for intel and mining photos of them (especially sexy ones). I keep low profile bc husbands / live ins are friends on their FB. Some are such exhibitionists and post tons of photos. I sometimes wonder if they use FB to recruit escort clients. You can become FB friends with a club then check out its friends who may be strippers you can befriend LOL. Many of them like girls for sex and their photos reflect this.

I would suggest a special Business Card with phony or stage name for giving your info to strippers. WARNING: If you have FB acct do not let your wife see it where lots of your friends are strippers LOL!

If your give your real name like say here in Houston, they can look you up your street address (Property Tax site and age (people search). I have heard horror stories of pg stripper showing up at guys front doors or some of her hood friends robbing his house.

If you have her on FB and fucked her at noon, it might give you insight to what she was doing between noon and 4pm when hubby came home. They reveal so much stuff when chatting with GF.

I might want to set up a fake account to have contacts with strip clubs and strippers if they ask. I was thinking I did not want to accept friends request from everyone on one account and have that information shared with relatives and everyone. I did have one dancer I knew threaten to reveal herself to all my family and friends and possibly even show up where I work at. I laughed. She was actually quite good looking and I did not think that was a serious threat. A lot of guys would have given me high 5's. I just did not want everyone talking about my personal life. She thought I was ashamed of her because the truth came out that I never told anyone I knew about her. I never told anyone anything in the first place no matter who I was seeing.

I'm FB friends with a dancer who can't give up once and for all on her useless baby-daddy. She can't manage her money for shit, which I guess just makes her a typical American. Otherwise, she has her act together, never caused me any trouble, and I'm sure she never will. But I wouldn't call her a typical dancer, the answer to your question just depends on the particular dancer. If you have worries that someone might cause you trouble, wait and get to know them better.

Many dancers will be very friendly towards you, but assume you understand that their "friendship" is part of what you are paying for, not a true friendship. They will likely be uncomfortable/annoyed if you ask them to be your FB friend.

I'm not sure what you all mean by a "fake account". I assume you mean you set it up with a fake name?

I suppose what I meant by them stalking me is that they send me message after message, and I suppose some of you mentioned that.

Yes. Fake name, email address that's used for no other purpose (go to mailinator.com for a throwaway email), no pictures except for those of other people, details all private, and *never* check the "remember me" box when logging in. :) I usually don't even log in on my home computer, but just on my phone.

After reading this thread, I gotta wonder who is stalking who?

I just want an easy way to let me know when they are going to be available that my kids can't accidently see. :)

hell, you can set up a 'throw-away' account on just about any of the web-based email providers. yahoo is an easy one, hushmail too. I keep a couple open for use if I'm signing up for something I might not want traced back to me.
as for FB, the club I frequent used to have its own web site. then they quite paying to reserve the name and just switched over to a FB account. guess it saves them a few bucks a month.

"I'm just wary that they might end up stalking me"

Has this ever happened (stripper "stalking" a customer?). Would be an interesting role reversal."


It happened to me years ago. She must have thought I had real money.

santiago,

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