How I got played by a stripper
Slin
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Long story short: a dancer gave me some amazing LDs that turned rather freaky; freakier then any dances that I've had before. Freaky to the point that I later go back to her for another set, and then once more before I'm leaving for the night. Before I leave, she says we should be friends and tells me to take her number.
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Naturally, I'm suspicious and I wasn't even sure if this was a real number. I do a trace of the cell number she gave me and her name ended up coming up which made me think, "Shit...could this be real?"
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I posted my story up on the thread I linked to in the first paragraph. After a few days, I find out that another customer had pretty much the same experience as me with the exact same girl! In short, I had been bamboozled and played out.
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Now, I want to offer my analysis on why her hustle was so good. Perhaps it can help out my fellow SC junkies on here.
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- She wasn't pushy. At no point did she try to sell me the champagne room or even ask me if I wanted another dance. Instead, after each dance was over she would just say "Thanks baby" and let me be the one to ask for another dance. She was one of the top two dancers I've ever had so I would usually go for another LD without her having to convince me. That brings me to my next point....
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- She lets guys chase her instead of the other way around. She realizes when she has a guy hooked and knows that a guy will come to her without her having to do anything. In my case, I believe since she saw me get so many dances from her she knew that I was already under her spell so she didn't have to really push for anything.
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- She came off as authentic. If you look around any given club and see girls talking to the customers, you can notice the game the girls are playing. They are energetic, enthusiastic, and friendly; kind of like a used car salesman. The problem with this approach is that a lot of people who are SC veterans are going to be naturally on their guard. What did this girl do different? Basically she just acted like any other girl you could talk to in the bar. She wouldn't pretend to laugh at jokes she didn't think were funny and didn't seem like she was trying to sell you something. Rather she would just be relaxed and be laid back.
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- She would give a LOT more mileage during your first encounter with her. The first night I saw her she was letting me spank her ass hard while the second time I saw her, she told me I couldn't do it anymore because she got in trouble with management. If you read the story of the other guy who got tricked by her, he actually got to finger her the first time the two of them got LDs together. On subsequent visits she would no longer allow him to do so. Her tactic was to go hardcore the first time you were with her in order to get you hooked and then later on tone it down; knowing that she didn't have to do stuff like that anymore since the guy was already on her line.
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- Gave her real phone # out. We all know that sometimes dancers will actually use a separate, pre-charged cell to keep customer numbers. This girl instead used her real phone which made the situation seem more legit. I suppose there are risks to doing that but I guess she was willing to take it.
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The funny thing is that this girl did NOT have to go through all this trickery in order to have me as a regular. Even her more toned down lap dances are enough for me to drop money on her whenever I would make my visits to the club. I was perfectly happy to keep everything in club until she gave out her digits and made me think that I could get more. Now, I have no desire to make life difficult for her but I can definitely see another customer who she pulls the same SS with to cause drama so I guess my only warning to her if she is reading this article is: be careful!
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12 comments
Strippers sell a fantasy, hope your fantasy experience was worth what you paid.
Have fun :)
1-I only do that/this for you (this one is basic SS which I saw through immediately). Phone, LD quality, real/unpaid outside date, real name, etc). Leave this alone as-is, and not much danger for even the most nieve. However....
2-Proactive texting...with topic being other than the typical SS of "you coming to see me tonight?". Recalling various topics of past discussions, etc.
3-Kissing, including DFK...initiated by her
4-proactive disclosure by her of real name (initially first name only, then weeks later, last name)
5-verifiable facts about her past which most would not like others to know about them
6-details about family/kids/ex
7-connection which, on the surface, one would think is not easily faked (looking into eyes and feeling connection), but in retrospect, was most likely result of years of her perfecting her game.
Other elements:
Called her out on her game-playing, after initial texts were merely "when coming to see me", "hey 'babe'...vs using my real name, getting furious when I refused LD from her and then she hopped on me later in night after stating 'this one is on me'...then her saying 'to show you it's not about the money for me...I genuinely like you"
Then texting restarted, with texts and calls being more 'normal' vs SS.
But then, sometimes "hey bb...how u doing", with many hours/days before her responding to my response, leading me to believe she sends same generic text to many in contact list, presenting perception she cares/thinking about you, when in reality, it's nothing more than mirage/trickery.
The moral of the story? Don't fool yourself into thinking it is anything more than SS, and pay attention to even subtle clues that things may not be as you want them to be.
I used to tell myself it wasn't fair to assume she was playing tricks just to get cash, solely as she happened to be a stripper.......but...that's just another lie we PLs sometimes tell ourselves to resist the harsh reality that we are most often nothing more than ATMs.
Keep your wits about you.
itc they're paid to obey one-night-stand sex dolls (ideally cleaned after each use).
tuscl is a great sandbox for training these lying lapdogs. if u can't call out their bullshit here, how are u gonna do it with a fake smile and tits in ur face. regardless of even their civil posts 99% of em hate/use men. make them earn likes and compliments with seduction/flirting. don't just roll over for every flower icon.
great article. thanks for the bump funontheside.
pretty good read.