Welcome to the mothafuckin jungle baby. I compare the strip club to a jungle all the time. I often times feel like it’s a free for all—I love the burning flames of shameless glory . Nothing quite like an entertainer, boldly bent over in front of a customer on stage, pulling her panties to the side, enticing him by sliding her fingers in her slit. Men, shamelessly spending money and walking around with half chubs or full on bricks in their pants. Sweaty bodies, the sweet smell of pussy and women, and money— it’s heady. A space devoid of social constructs and rules—it’s glorious, it’s wild, it’s feral, it’s lustful. We’re all just a bunch of animals. Lol ✨
This past week at work was filled, for me, with fun flirting, hot grinding, and unsuspected connections. The level of intimacy I create not only captivates the majority of my clients, but often times, I find myself spun up in my own web of carefully placed kisses and touches. The closeness is hot, the roaming, yet respectful hands are teasing, and the soft notes of earth and flowers, dancing delicately on my skin, gives my clients(and me) a sense of ease. Again, just how I like it.
Intimacy and safety and comfort are things that are becoming harder and harder to find in the club. Actually, I have to ask. Were they ever here in the first place? I like being that intimate and safe space for clients. A space where they can truly relax, without concerns of being robbed or drugged or feeling the need to have an impenetrable wall built up. Feeling my client’s tension melt away under my fingers and thighs; that, to me, is a sign of a good time. That’s what I want for everyone that crosses my path. I want them to feel secure and cared for. I want their arousal handed over to me blissfully unencumbered by fear or shame.
The lack of comfort in the club kind of ties into my frustrations in my diary entry, “Entry One”, but I won’t get into that. All I’ll say is, comfort and security in the strip club is sparse, maybe that plays into my analogy of the club being “a jungle”. Maybe the lack of comfort is the grove of the jungle that I’m not so enthused about.
So, I have questions for all you strip club attendees! Do you want to be comfortable or feel safe when attending clubs or do you like the edginess? Is intimacy valued and sought after or is detachment preferred? Do you care about strippers caring about you? What can an entertainer do to make you feel safe?
Maybe I’m being too soft, who knows, but I feel as if my tender side separates me from the rest, and I value that within myself and within the space.
Til next time.
With Love Always, Infinity 💋
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Ahh yes! Lovely.. I spent hours at work the other night writing this article. I’m not sure if “AI generated” is a compliment or not—do I sound robotic? Also.. spam? I’m trying to make a fresh contribution to a site while also gaining insight on my occupation. Thanks for approving my article-I’m excited to hear everyone’s thoughts on comfort and safety in the club!
@Pearl.escent I have to admit, AI-generated was my first thought, but when I read the whole things, I could clearly see it wasn't. Either that or Claude has some weird kinks, lol
@Pearl.escent Some of the guys on here got kicked off of r/stripper when they got caught pretending to be strippers. They want all strippers blocked from TUSCL, for revenge.
@BaronToddRichards I was really proud of this writing lol I would have been upset if it got denied because it felt like AI made it.. when, as you said, clearly that’s not the case 🫠
@ilbbaicnl ahh.. makes sense. I’m on this site obviously to gain something, like everyone else, but I also want to contribute too.
@Pearl.escent Y'know, some people assume it is AI if the writing uses proper sentence structure and paragraphs . . .
Everyone's thoughts?
I bet you would be a wonderful companion for a set of slow, erotic, mutual body exploration dances.
Yes, I do.
@gSteph happy it tickled your fancy :)
You wrote and I quote:
“I find myself spun up in my own web of carefully placed kisses and touches.”
Pics and Vids or it didn’t happen.
:D
Good Times, Good Times.
@CJKent_band no pics or vids, the magic stays in the club 🙂↕️
It's been about two years that I haven't been in a strip club. I've only gotten "dances" from one stripper, who comes to my place, generally every week. I'm only in strip clubs when such arrangements come to an end. I want what happens in the club to be as close as possible to being in private with a stripper. The club being significantly dangerous would be nothing but a big negative. The stage show doesn't interest me, I generally only throw a small courtesy tip. I'm indifferent to how well the club imitates TGI Friday's decor. I don't mind if the club looks like the bar from Cheers, but in later years, when Sam started spending all the upkeep money on crack. Those are the two big categories, and I'm also largely unimpressed by clubs that try to be more original. I resent every dollar I spend in the club that isn't going into a stripper's garter. Because how good of a time I'll have depends on their effort, which is motivated in proportion to $ received.
@ilbbaicnl it sounds like you’re not really a fan of clubs in general. I completely understand wanting to take your entertainment more private. Safer, more comfortable, and you know every dollar is going to the lovely lady that’s keeping you company. I’ve had offers like this, but I feel as if they are being accompanied by expectations of sex. I would totally make house calls, but I can’t deal with the expectations. But that’s another topic for another day 😋 thanks sm for sharing!
GPTzero says that this is human generated, not AI. There are several AI text detectors on the web which make It easy to check if something is AI. I use one before I reject something for being AI.
@Harderlap thanks for this comment. Hopefully others take notes :)
@Pearl.escent They probably won’t, but it is easy to determine if something is AI generated or not. Keep up you input to TUSCL.
Nice article, but a picture of your pussy is worth a thousand words.
@vajmon pussy pics make me uncomfortable and so my nudity stays in the club ✨
These are interesting questions. I started writing my answers, and then it got very wordy. It's such a fascinating dynamic.
The short of it is - I don't want to be on edge. I want to feel comfortable (in my paradise, my sanctuary) and I also want the dancer I am with to feel safe as well. I understand how hard it is for a dancer to approach some guys, so I try to be as "safe" as possible.
I may have to write a whole discussion article on this and post it here. And also address the intimacy question you raised (bottom line: I favor dancers who are good, sincere people, and it draws me to them on an emotional level. Vague, I know, but let me work on my thesis about this).
I can't say a dancer ever made me feel unsafe (maybe the one who took my belt and tied it around my neck, but it turned out to be a lot of fun). There was a club In Honolulu I went to do and for the private dance, we had to go out some side door, through a garage, and into a weird second story outbuilding - yeah, that had me thinking Texas Chainsaw Massacre. But, really, I don't associate with deviants. Only nice girls. 😇
Great questions...
@AllWeeksAreMine ahhh, I’m so grateful you took the time to write out some thoughtful answers to my questions! I wish I had gotten more answers on here, but I might just take my questions to the club and ask people at random and keep a mental note of the answers.
Grateful to hear that there are men who are still looking for a unique experience at the strip club that isn’t just “grind and go”!
Excited to read your article on the topic!
@Pearl.escent So, I am just going to post the rest of my lengthy thoughts here. Keep in mind that I may not be the average patron (I pride myself on my excessive self-awareness), so this is only my perspective....
Do you want to be comfortable or feel safe when attending clubs or do you like the edginess?
I absolutely prefer comfort and safety for myself (and everyone). I do not tend to go to sketchy clubs. However, I do realize where I am, even in nicer establishments. The nature of the strip club - the erotic overtones - is all the edginess I need. I do love the thrill of the hunt (and being hunted).
Now, I am completely aware of not only my situation, but of the dancer’s. I can’t fathom being an entertainer and approaching some of these guys; a complete unknown. Let’s face it - take some horny dudes, give them alcohol, and toss in T&A in a place where it is encouraged to exploit and sell T&A; and well, it may not always bring out the best of men. Which is why I try to dress nice and be well groomed, and be polite and courteous to all the dancers and staff at the club. I want to reek of safety. Win-win.
Is intimacy valued and sought after or is detachment preferred?
I don’t expect intimacy (in the emotional sense), but when it happens, it is a bonus. I never go in looking for it, but I admit, I have had some great connections with dancers. Then, suddenly, it becomes valued. And when I come again, and they are there, it then becomes an expectation. As a dancer, it is a great skill to have. Turns me into an ATM.
However, I do like the post-club detachment in many cases. I hate drama in any relationship. So if I get to leave the club and never have to deal with anyone, it’s kind of a relief. Selfish, I know, but the SC is a place that has business transactions that ends when I leave the club. Most of the time, anyway (I have had post-club relationships, and not of the paid variety).
Do you care about strippers caring about you?
Like any friendship, I care. So if the dancer and I have built a bond (see the first question) of course I would care.
What can an entertainer do to make you feel safe?
Be in control of her senses - not sloppy drunk, super tweaked high, or otherwise loco. She has to know what she’s doing. I would much rather deal with a clever, manipulative and intelligent dancer than one who demands more drinks because she lost the last one.
Well, there you go!
Couple of thoughts from my own experience. One of the time I felt unsafe & wierd was when a stripper sat with me already half drunk , order couple more shots and then whispers in my ear that she is horny and has not had sex in a while. Don’t get me wrong. I am no prude but she was too drunk to handle herself and I didn’t want drama at the club. On the other side, I clicked with a stripper who would text me if she was in or I would text her and have her come in. We would be comfortable in each others presence. Nothing pretentious. I would have even taken her out but I didn’t feel like crossing the line. Jeopardizing a no dram situation.