I never did understand the people that came to a club for just one stripper. For most of my strip clubbing career, i was a volume monger, although i still preferred quality dancers. So i was like a club player or a superchump if you will. Then in the last few years, i tended to limit my dances to a select few favorites and regulars but still often danced with numerous strippers in the same club and almost always more than one. That is until i met my current ATF. Now, i'm talking about mid-sized to large clubs, so if most of your experience is in small or dive clubs with only a handful of dancers or even less per shift, usually dayshift, this might not apply to you as your pickings might always be pretty slim. I won't say that i'm now a true believer, but i understand now.
When i had just favorites and my previous ATFs, i might say to myself, oh, i wouldn't mind spending all of my budget on her over splitting in on a number of less desired dancers AND her, especially if she was head and shoulders over the others there. Often after all was said and done, i did wish i could have had some of those dances back and spent it on her instead or not at all even. And at one club, my club favorite was considerably better than the rest as that club just continued to suffer from an exodus of talent including that former club favorite eventually, and i came, NPI, specifically for her. But for the most part, there were and still are several high quality, high fun girls working at my favorite clubs and just the joy of finding a new hot fun girl to play with never gets old and is always worth spending some money on IMO. I also still have fond memories of most of my favorites that i don't see anymore and wouldn't mind seeing them again. Variety is the spice of life.
But with my current ATF, whom i thought was so much better than the rest of my favorite girls, i would actually rather spend all of my money on her instead of on her and some of my other favorites. I usually never regret (okay maybe regret is a strong word and i'm generally not a regretful person, so maybe buyer's remorse then?) spending money on any favorite or high quality, fun dancer as i almost always have a very enjoyable time with her. But if i wanted to have the BEST time, i would still have rather had all my dances with my current ATF if i'm going to spend the same amount of money anyway. I mean the flooding of brain chemicals is just a different story and level with her.
Enter my last club visit. My ATF is very popular and just doesn't give out her number. She also does very well and can come whenever she wants or feels like and still make money. But she has a "regular" schedule, and says that she all but consistently comes on certain days. So i thought it would be one of those days, Saturdays, where i have never seen her not work. She had even told me on my last visit that she would be in on this particular Saturday. Lo and behold, she's not there. I am pretty bummed, sad even, and just thinking of high tailing it as i brought a lot of money to spend just on her and i didn't want to "waste" it on other girls (yes, i now consider spending money on my 2nd, 3rd and beyond favorites a bit of a waste).
I look around and see about three girls i've danced with before and had great times with. They see me, but they're thankfully and rightfully occupied with other customers and don't come my way. One of them (probably my number two, but not always before that visit, and consistently one of my favorites there over the last couple of years) always somehow ends up convincing me of getting more dances that i had originally planned with her; she is still quite good and once i start with her it is hard to stop. I figure i should just probably wait for her instead of going to the club for nothing. I also see one or two of the less attractive dancers that i've gotten plenty of dances from before, but don't anymore and do my best to avoid any contact with them. Since it's Saturday, they're also thankfully occupied. And one of the more attractive girls there that gives only average to decent dances was working there and made her way to me. But i haven't danced with her in a long time, so we just talked a bit and that was it.
For most of my time there, i'm not sitting at a table, but standing near the bar where they have a long counter/island in front of the actual bar for customers to just put their drinks on and stand around and about talking to other customers or dancers and watch the stage from a distance. You're less likely to get hard sells that way as dancers can't sit on your lap, any intimate "handshakes" are more awkward and obvious, so you just mostly chill or shoot shit while keeping an eye out for a dancer you want to grab, which is what i'm doing. Very soon, i feel a warm hand touch my back and waist and i feel and immediately know it's not a stranger or new dancer (every woman just has a different energy). I turn around and i see a girl who only goes there semi-seasonally. She has a regular job or two that pays pretty well (around $18-30 dollars an hour according to her) and only strips when she's in the area (her family is there) and wants to make extra money. I've had great dances with her and even better chemistry. She has told me that she leans toward lesbian (usually has a GF) but seems to really like me, yeah probably SS, the liking me part anyway.
So our dances while great have historically been a bit on the conservative side. She doesn't seem to particularly enjoy penetration as many lesbians don't, although not all straight women do either. But i haven't seen her in a while so we go to the LD area where her dances are now two or three notches above our previous dances and less conservative, seriously rivaling and probably exceeding the former number two. It doesn't hurt that her already great tits with wonderfully long nipples (when they get hard, and they did get hard pretty easily) seems even larger now. I have one multi-dance session, and she finds me about an hour later telling me she was about to leave (it was true as she got there when they opened and she wasn't going to stay there for 12 hours) and we did another great multi-dance session both with modest tipping (although the second session had less tipping, $10).
I still have a lot of money left, and am feeling pretty good. The former number two is still talking to the same bottle service customer who is spending some money at the table to keep her there, but probably nowhere near the equivalent of multi-dances. I then spot another dancer that i haven't seen in over a year and she clearly recognizes and remembers me. She gives almost out of the world dances (my only issue with her dances is she moves around a little more than i like during her dances opposed to the ATF that does things exactly the way i like) but she's probably an 8.5 or maybe more like a 9 instead of the 10 my ATF is; she has a very pretty although heavily made up face, but her body isn't quite as fit and her tits although larger aren't quite as nice. I'm very tickled to be able to run into her again and after some small talk and catching up we're soon heading off to the chump station.
She had on this very sexy getup and crotchless undies under her onesie which made kitty play almost irresistable and immediate. A couple dances later the undies came off as well. But all the while, her dances were even better than i remembered, and they were always great. She was moving more to my rhythm but still grinding more than i usually like, but still very nice. She was talking dirtier than usual, telling me what she would like me to do to her and strongly encouraging me to do whatever i wanted with her as well as asking what else i wanted to do and being even more affectionate. Very rarely do i see this type of generosity and affection from such a hot stripper. I also rarely kiss during dances, mostly because it's not offered, and when i do it's mostly just a slightly lingering soft closed mouthed kiss but more than an impersonal peck. But she was being much more sensual and sexy and it was feeling much more closer to GFE or something different altogether like very hot GFE. Basically, everything i've ever wanted to do in a regular lap dance(s), i did with her and i tipped her generously. Her dances seriously rivaled if not exceeded the ATF's dances. I guess you could compare it to getting your favorite meal at a restaurant, but the main food item is out, so you have to pick something else that's not your first choice, but somehow, it really hits the spot even better than your favorite meal usually does (for those of you foodies that tend to order the same thing every time at a particular restaurant).
I STILL had a decent amount of money left (so evidently i spend a ton on my ATF or am prepared to just in case), but not a lot, but enough where i could visit the club and hopefully the ATF sooner than later, or i could spend it on other favorites or rather one more round with my new clear number 2 (the last dancer) as there was far from any guarantee that i would be able to run into her again soon. The thing is these two dancers were never technically favorites as i didn't see them enough, so they aren't used to me spending hundreds on them and don't expect it and didn't push for it in the chump station (forever the new term for the LD area), often asking me if i wanted to go on during the sessions, where my favorites would automatically go on until i stopped them. So theoretically, i could continue to have great times with them without spending anywhere near as much as on my ATF. I decided to call it a night, and a very good one at that as i was already more than satisfied despite spending less. Usually when i leave a club with a substantial amount of money left in my pockets, i'm a bit or quite a bit disappointed, but not this time.
I had come to the club with a clear plan or intention, but instead i just left more confused than ever. On one hand, i didn't see who i had come to see, but on the other hand, if she had been there, i would have likely if not probably missed out on two great experiences, one of them being worthy of my personal SC hall of fame. So i might just be back to where i started...no longer going to the club for just one stripper. Who really knows though? Maybe a few more visits with the ATF changes all that all over again...
I know this could have worked as a club review, but since this related more to the psychology of PLs and favorites than club specifics besides specific dancers who will remain unnamed, i thought it served better as an article.
I historically find the one (on very rare occasions two) stripper that I want to experience, and it's pretty much as if no other dancers even exist.
Have my type, know it, and that works for me. For me, dropping the $$ on what I EXACTLY want beats testing the waters and spreading myself thinner than I'd like.
Interested in seeing what other guys' views are on this. Thank you for the article.