Worst lap dance in my life

So to be fair, post pandemic, I have visited this place 3 times in 2 months. I must have been extremely lucky the first 2, as I left happy and satisfied on those 2 occasions. Maybe it was the day and time, but for some reason this night was by far my worst experience with a VIP dance at Reveal and probably the worst dance I have ever had. The parking lot was nearly full, and I should have left then. Before I even entered I was met by shirtless 20-something men and wrote it off to being a hot day before. When I got inside there were more, and even one dancing the pole. I got an extremely overpriced well coke and tipped heavily. Nobody said a word to me. I sat down to take it all in and noticed about 5 ladies working, but others were clearly not. Only one dancer was actually dancing and noticed me spying. She came to introduce herself as Flo. I mean, really? However she was the only one in the place giving me ANY attention, so I took a risk. Flo is in 3-4 inch heels that have color changing LEDS with an whip made of fiber optic cords. Has somewhat of a Barbarella in bandages outfit going on. She early to mid 20's, white, tall. Short hair is about half brown roots and dyed blonde. She is trying but not too much. Probably the smallest chest I have ever seen on a grown women.... like A cup being is generous. But I am truly an ass man. That she was NOT lacking, and I planned to see it sitting in my lap. I asked her if she wanted to just go to the VIP room and she agreed. I put the money up (3 songs for $100) and waited while she situated. She sat next to me and draped her leg over my lap, grazing my crotch, asking for my favorite color. I replied green. She changed colors on her gear and got up. Warned me that this was only 1 way touch and started to dance. After that, the leg on my lap was the closest she ever got to me.

Here is what I expected from my first two experiences. Teasing for the first two songs, and removal of bottoms before the third song. Last song involving two way touch, and devoted to grinding with final release. What I got from Flo was two songs of awkward dancing at a distance, and removal on zero clothes. I was holding hope for the third song, but Flo decided that was the time to pick up her whip. I had to stop her flailing after being hit in the face twice. It was a uniquely weird experience. Especially after she asked for a review, and I had to honestly tell her it was the worst dance of my life. She took her money and almost ran away. I went outside to decompress before driving. I was upset. The bartender came out, and I said something about the crowd. She finally tells me its ladies night, and the shirtless guys are dancers. I remark about Flo, and she tells me she is very new. I left very unhappy and wonder why I didn't just go next door to the G-spot... or better yet stayed home.