Long time member, but I haven't been going as frequently due to a change in lifestyle and the quality of the girls. Quality among the girls at Providence clubs go in cycles, but Desire consistently delivers the goods. On this particular night I was with a beautiful, tall dancer.
After a drink in the general area we went upstairs to the 2nd floor members area and ordered another drink before going for dances in the private rooms. YMMV but if you get to know a girl, act respectfully, and aren't a cheap bastard, there's a MUCH better chance you'll have a great time.