Was in the area visiting relatives...

Was in the area visiting relatives for the holidays and decided to drop in and catch a few dances. The last time I was here was a waste of time. So I decided to try the evening. Paid the doorman a $10 cover. Bar is right ahead of you when you enter and the stage is in the back. Went in looked around and decided to sit at the stage. There were about 10 other guys in there and they looked like 18 year olds who were also at the stage. I ordered water (they don't serve alcohol) and put up a few dollars on the rail. I waited and waited for the dancer to come over, but all she did was talk to the 18 year olds. They weren’t tipping and she wasn't coming over to me so I decided to pick up my money and sit at a table. I decided it was a waste of time as there were only a couple of other dancers and they were either sitting or texting on their phones. After 15 mins of no company I decided to leave. This was very similar to my last visit here a few months ago. I had plenty of money to spend but nobody wanted it. I just don’t understand this place.