Not the worst I've experienced, but too pushy

I haven't been to this club in years. Sunday night. No stunners. Was approached first by relatively attractive Ukrainian girl. Reasonably friendly but shift change was in a few minutes and I wasn't interested in getting a dance before having a couple of beers. Bud-light is $4.75. Wine is $8.50, so I drank beer. Approx 40-year-old Asia came by and practically begged for a dance, fondling my crotch. I wasn't feeling it. I tipped pretty-hot Hispanic Marilyn on stage. She stopped by, but asked for a dance immediately and then ran off. No interest in conversation. Selena (Hispanic or Brazilian?) came by and immediately asked for a dance and started fondling my crotch. She was nice enough, and I hung on for a while, but eventually gave in and took her for a couple of dances. The first dance is $25 and subsequent are $20. She said she wanted to "take it out" and give me a blow job. She assured me I was her first customer of the evening, but I still declined. She was older but still had soft skin and nice, not-saggy breasts. There was lots of mutual touching, but nothing creative. Another Asia (could I have mis-heard?), younger, long dark hair and somewhat overweight, took me for a dance but I stopped after 1, wasn't feeling it with her. Next was an attractive blonde, again, no stunners here, and I got two dances with her. She hinted at playing with my body, but for the most part just did the usual fondling.

Bottom line for me is that I prefer getting to know a girl before taking her for a dance, and if I haven't had a decent conversation with her I have trouble getting excited no matter how much she grabs my privates. Also, I'd rather get a tame dance from a 9 (ratings are subjective), than a hand/blow job from a 5 or 6. If I go to a new club and the typical girl asks me to dance within 3 minutes of approaching me and then insists, it's probably not the club for me. My favorite clubs are "The Club" in MA and Dollhouse in RI. Both places I feel like the girls actually like me, and when get a dance I usually get incredibly turned on.

Of course, I'm not really looking for a sexual outlet or release. I'm married and do have a sex life at home. I'm looking for companionship and variety and spice.