Just don't get it...

Catching up on my reviews, been traveling a lot lately, so have gotten to sample out of town clubs along with my regular stops at home.

What I just don't get- What is the deal when you walk into a place, and no one seems to care about getting your money?

Walked into Ultra, same as it was when it was T's, weird layout, lots of mirrors, etc. Collect a dollar at the door, and go in thru the first bar and find a group of golfers(?) taking up a fair amount of space around the stage (first row outside of the seats right at the stage). Walk around till I can find a place where i can see, not too close and not too far from stage. And I wait. The group is loud and boisterous, about 8 guys and 5-6 girls. Lots of laughs and drinking, and the waitress is all but hovering for their next request. And I wait. Dancers leave the stage, pull on their panties and go over to the group, and one gets up from the table and replaces her on stage. And I wait. A full 25 minutes later, a dancer comes over to the rail in front of where I'm sitting, leans waaaayyy over the rail and wiggles her fingers for a tip. I think not, start to get up and collide with a waitress who has finally come over to see if I need a refill. I look at the empty table where I was sitting, look at her and told her no, I'm sure that the group needs her, I've waited long enough. Mentioned it to the girl at the front on the way out as well. Not snobby, not whiny, just matter of fact. I'm sure the group was spending a lot, but what damage is done when you've pissed off others?