Mixed Feelings

Girls weren't bad looking, but there weren't many of them and they didn't mingle. Of the 7 girls working that night (which isn't many but should have been enough for the small crowd), 5 of them were basically Out Of Service, having set up permanent base with some of the guys there. Two girls were at a table with some biker guys, one was talking to an old man at the bar, and two others were at separate tables with other guys. Not just for a little bit, the whole 2 and 1/2 hours I was there. And these guys didn't appear to be big spenders, at least not on dances. I didn't see one girl give a dance or take anybody back for a dance the whole time I was there. They just sat at these tables and talked to these guys, ignoring everybody else. They'd get called up to the stage, then go right back to those guys. For over 2 hours I just sat there and eventually a young lady came to my table. She wasn't really what I was looking for (I had my eye on 2-3 others for a dance), but she was a very sweet black girl who I had a nice conversation with. And since I was getting ready to leave (with all the money I had brought for lap dances still sitting sadly in my wallet), and it was clear that no other girl was going to give me the time of day, I decided to go for a dance with her. Glad I did because while she hadn't been what I had in mind, she turned out to be great. Probably the best lap dance I ever had, and interesting as I've never had any type of relationship/date/lap dance or anything from a black girl before. And I guess that saved the experience from being completely terrible. Otherwise I basically would have paid a cover charge and strip club beer prices to watch a bunch of girls flirt with other guys.

I should point out that this was the first time I had been to a strip club in 11 years, so I'm a little out of touch. Because things appeared to have changed in the past decade. Or maybe this club is just more relaxed? I've never been to a club where you could touch the girls. No Touching, it was just a rule, if you violated it you'd be kicked out. The first thing I saw when I walked in here were guys standing up at the main stage touching and rubbing on the girls. Every time it would happen it was like some old strip club instinct would kick in and I'd brace myself for a security freakout. But nothing ever happened. When I went for my dance, I wasn't going to try and risk anything. Maybe out there it was OK, but back in this little private screened in area I thought maybe they'd be more touchy about it. Feel a little more threatened back there without security watching or whatever. I don't know, I'm not a stripper. But this girl was like "Why you so shy?" and just grabbed my hands and started rubbing them all over her breasts and then just about everywhere else. All the while she was kissing on my neck and nibbling on my ears. Nothing like dances I was used to in the past, where you kept you hands at your side, and they didn't really touch you all that much except for with their hair and usually finishing off by rubbing their breasts on your face for a few seconds. But it was mainly just a dance, as the title implies, you watched them dance. This girl didn't dance at all, she wasn't on her feet but rather laying on me, it was more like a snuggle session or something. I don't know if that's just the way things are at strip clubs these days (things have just escalated and become more sexy over time), or just some of them. I can't imagine it being the same way at a more upscale place.