The Sands has some mysterious pull...

The Sands has some mysterious pull over me. Every time I go there are only a couple of girls on shift, nobody dancing, and it is such a dive I tell myself I'm never going back, but every 6 or 8 months I return. I think it is the privacy - the dancers are generally average to pretty decent looking, and since I am almost always the only customer, I think "this might be the time..." I went by Thursday and there were two dancers working. I went into the VIP with the brunette ... she has nice legs and a great butt. So we start doing a VIP dance, and she takes off her top. I've got my sweat pants on so I casually pull them down in front. She doesn't seem to mind at all, in fact she keeps grinding on me pretty good. When she gets up to face me, she is smiling and everything is good, but she wouldn't actually touch it with her hands. She let me touch her T & A, but nothing inside her thong. She grinded on me like that for two songs, but nothing more. I don't seem to have figured out the YMMV part at the Sands. I've got plenty of mileage at other places, but I can't figure the Sands out. I'll probably give it another go next summer.