Comments by FoCoChronic

@Vikings I agree with your philosophy. Why spend on anyone else when you know she’s going to show you a good time? Go for a sure thing instead of a crapshoot. I’ll go to the stage and tip some other ladies, make some small talk and get a brief change of scenery, but I’m there to pay only one dancer’s bills. Have fun catching up with your CF! @Lionel I was raised on The Simpsons. And that’s some precision right there. I have family in SD, I fly out on occasion. Any clubs you’d recommend in or around the city? I don’t foresee myself making the drive to Tijuana, even if it is only 30 or 60 minutes @Puddy Tat do you prefer the variety instead of trying to find a good dancer who you gel with?

@Lionel Hutz I never even considered that, there’s more than one way to skin a cat. What’s your criteria then for selecting a club when you might never be back? And thanks, I’m sure it’ll be a worthwhile night

You can either ignore it or find some aspect of Halloween that you do enjoy and latch onto it, so it becomes something to look forward to every year. Never been to a strip club on Halloween, but sexy nurse strippers seem like a good enough reason to me to get excited I will say though, it is annoying af when people can’t even wait for the month of the holiday before they put up decorations. Halloween before October and Christmas before Thanksgiving, settle down

There’s nothing natty about her, but I’d still smash like the Hulk. She’s a Barbie doll muscle mommy

Why pay an OF girl when you can pay a dancer? I find that one provides a much better service than the other. Anything spent on the internet is far better spent on a real life interaction

I would not review the location you went to under a different location, that should be self-explanatory. Click “contact us” and shoot them a follow-up email.

After some reconsideration, I think the best gift is an origami $100

grrlgonebad That’s cool of you to do. I have a club date coming up, I’ll ask her if she’d be open to this

lol hardwood floors. That’s my preference too, but anything that is trimmed and maintained is just fine too. Everyone has a preference, and like others have said, you can’t please everyone, so do what you want. But I think most guys are just happy there’s a pretty dancer and won’t care about her coochie hair all that much. We’ll definitely notice, but most won’t care

Just because it’s business doesn’t mean you can’t have a good working relationship and enjoy your business partner as a human being. Strippers have customers they prefer, just like we all have professional relationships that we prefer over others. Giving a dancer flowers is no different than giving your realtor/lawyer/whomever a bottle of wine or whatever. It’s a gesture of good faith and an expression of gratitude

I don’t think that’s weird at all. If they’re your ATFs, then I’m sure there’s some good rapport already established and they will appreciate it and know the place it’s coming from. It would only be overbearing or off putting if it was a dancer you didn’t know very well, I would think. Maybe get a little $5 or $10 vase so it stays safe at her locker/mirror while she’s on the floor. Despite women saying they love flowers, experience tells me they don’t really appreciate them all that much. I agree chocolates is a good idea too

I will say, if clubs allowed customers to pick some tunes on occasion, or if you could pay for a song/set of your choosing, maybe find a dancer who’s in agreement with you and likes your taste, I would get fucking hype and spend more during my own jams. That’s a great idea, someone somewhere should implement it

Yup, I downloaded an AI gender bender app several years ago just to answer this question

^all of these things and more have happened to me at sniffer’s row and the dancer almost always initiates it. I tip multiple times during a girl’s set and see what she offers, let her take the lead with what she feels comfortable with. But different clubs have different rules, one time a lady told me they’re not allowed to be “off stage” at this club, and at another place, you’ll get mini LDs with ass and coochie all up in your face while she’s on stage. It also never hurts to ask politely. With some cash in hand, “Will you please put your tits in my face,” or, “Can I please put this in your g-string?” One of my go-to methods for evaluating a dancer is asking the latter and seeing if she raises her thong herself or motions her ass toward me to signal that I can do the snapping.

Heavier duty fabric will do a better job at containing the meat, maybe she prefers a hard lump over a pokey tent? I only ever wear decent pants and button ups ITC, I want to feel like I look somewhat attractive and dancers almost always unbutton my shirt for skin-on-skin. You can still get a great grind wearing actual pants. Should I be wearing shorts?

Puritans only care about feeling self righteous and profiteering, not positively impacting people who are actually being harmed. Shit like this should be swept under the rug. I’d imagine the main reason prosecutors & LE cared was because it was a network and they stood to profit from a trial. Independent escorts are small fish, stick with them and strippers. Or go to Reno or Germany

@motorhead attractive men can still go to strip clubs. It’s not just about getting pussy, it’s about the experience, it’s about having fun in bizarro world. One can get laid “for real” and still have an insatiable appetite. Or one can be going through a dry spell for whatever reason and substitute civilians with sex workers. A lot of men are married but dissatisfied in the bedroom. Also, how a man looks is not indicative of the play he gets, as it is for women. Women have different criteria than men when it comes to hooking up. They tend to care about more than just looks. The ability to get pussy/how attractive a guy is and the desire to club are not necessarily correlated, but I can see how they would reasonably seem inversely proportional

I’d say a 6, I think that’s fair. Above average, but nothing too crazy. I think I dress decently, my hair and beard look good, I’m in shape but on the slimmer side. I have tattoos and piercings, you either like that or you don’t. Some women would say I’m a 4, others might think I’m a 7. I’ve dated two women who I would rate 8s

No, this is a different girl. I don’t want OTC with the FIV dancer, she’s too ratchet for me lol. We’ve discussed this in another thread, but I have updates. It’s the sushi girl. I offered her a day/time to get lunch and told her I wanted to get a hotel room too. She said “for what” and I said “to finish what was started ITC”. She made an earnest attempt at a lapgasm but I didn’t finish. She said no, her reasoning was just to get me off her case, it made no rational sense. She still wanted to just hang out and get sushi, no compensation for her time, just the meal

^my city had one single strip club that was shut down before I was old enough to go. The building was bought by a church…

Both the South Park games are great. Play the first one and then the second. The titty bar is in both of them, if I recall. The episode “Lil Crime Stoppers” prominently features the strip club and I believe it was the club’s first appearance.

I don’t get it, is it a running gag that you post AI “women”?

That club sounds rad as fuck, I hope Chicas Locas beats the lawsuit. Hopefully, the landlord or owner or whomever didn’t actually agree in the initial settlement to prevent it from becoming another titty bar

I’d still consider myself new here and I’ve only ever asked one dancer about OTC. I suppose the more I do it, I’ll see what I feel comfortable with and what yields results. I asked this dancer in a way that was direct but wasn't necessarily vulgar, and got a direct response, but I still felt weird about it. Strippers typically aren’t there to suck n fuck, they’re there to provide a fantasy experience, yeah? There are other ladies who do advertise that they suck n fuck, I feel the solicitation is more appropriate for them. I would only ask a dancer about OTC if she gave me a good VIP experience and we had some familiarity already, I think that’s a no-brainer. So you’re probably right, perhaps it’s not insulting in that context, it’s the next logical step. I just gotta try some things out and see what happens.

Lurker, you sound exactly like me