Comments by Iridescenttt

😂😂😂 Ish you taking me out on behalf of all the dommes it’s a no for us 😂

@desertscrub also I think you asked how was I a sub in bed but I have submissives… Sexually I categorize myself as a sensualist/switch/brat maybe an exhibitionist, Idrk still have yet to explore that. I can be submissive…but I’m also dominant. Naturally I am a dominant woman. You have to earn my respect for me to submit to you. Most men aren’t men. It’s a turn off for most but I’d rather be an alpha woman and get shit done then have two betas walking around .

@desertscrub genuinely confused what exactly is contradictory so I can clear it up for you? I’m going to assume you are not really into this specific part of the kink community if I’m understanding your question. All because I have a sub, does not mean that I can not take on multiple. I have a sub I currently see in my day to day that I converse with everyday, however there are some subs that have no interest in being owned…they may interact with me 1-2 times a month to get their kink itched…people who partake in findom or any type of domination can have multiple piggies/partners. Even with my partner now, he has a cuckold kink. But he agreed only if I was comfortable to do it.

@moneyman1234 no very much real. There are so many kinks out there! Fetlife is a great place to learn more and explore your kinks. Some people are masochists, sadomasochists, etc. In my lifestyle dominatrix life I characterize myself as a soft domme. But as a pro domme (getting paid for it) most men do not want a soft domme. I require the sub I have now to go to sleep at a specific time, text me a good morning within a certain time, lmk when he’s home, obviously he fucks up from time to time and I flog him. I don’t like back talk but I genuinely and not a sadist, I do not get pleasure out of hurting him because I care. To each their own we all have our own kinks, I just carry out peoples if I feel comfortable . Some people even dabble in knife play

Hey yall! I’m not at DV I’m actually in between clubs right now! However, I’m going to answer these questions real quick! Thanks for reaching out . 1. When and how did you get into dancing? What made you get into it? I was in a pole studio learning. I met a lot of girls that happened to also exotic dance. They told me how much money they made. I was like shiiiit lol can practice ,make money, work less, study more AWESOME 2. How has it been so far? And what has the baby stripper experience been like? I am not the fondest of stripping. Will not be a forever thing. I’m actually going to bartending school in January. They make more than the dancers! Shoot…I hope I can bartend in the club frfr. I love learning new things on the pole and I’ll likely do that for my partner as long as my body will allow me 😂 but actually stripping..too draining for me. the baby stripper experience is fine. Customers love the new girls but the dancers think they can play in your face. I’ve danced in Bmore too and the girls there are ROACHES I literally had a girl take her foot and push my money into her pile. She obviously needed it more than me . I can’t be bothered to fight over a few dollars. Keep it cute lol. 3. You feel your getting better at how to move in a strip club? You wanna continue with it or this just thing rn? Each club the hustle is different. Some you work crazy for your cash. some money is less hustle. I started at a hustling club. Very frustratingto navigate. Club also wasn’t my scene but everyone was nice (the girls I knew) the club just wasnt for me Bmore is also big on hustle. I had a cool gig but it was just too far. It was def a bit less hustle. Looking for new club!This thing is definitely just for right now. Being a dominatrix is definitely a long term thing. The SD I was talking to was doing too much so I just dropped him lol. 4. Could you talk about the Philly area strip club scene? And what are other customers and dancers saying about it? Any club recs for customers or dancers? The Philly area strip club scene…refer to my discussion posts lol but all jokes aside. Very colorist here. Doesn’t matter how pretty you are put together you are if you brown and they got a cap it’s a cap and that’s that. I’ve hit up risque in tacony and Columbus Blvd cheerleaders the dancers saying they kinda slow rn purple orchid the pic and 19th hole are doing pretty well rn. This what I heard from the dancers. The customers, I don’t talk to them too much about the club scene. But the girls dancing in Pa hit up those places cause apparently those the ones with the coinssss 5. How have customers been to you? Some very disrespectful some respectful. I do not tolerate disrespect though. I do not care how many ones you gonna throw at me. 6. Ever done extras at one point? I do not sell coochie. Never have it’s just not my thing. But I get paid to go on dates. I prefer older men. Not old old but older than me lol…I also do not accept every sugar offer. If I do not like the way that you look, if I wouldn’t actually date you I am not accepting any offer for you to take care of me. Gift giving is my love language so sugar dating just works for me. I’m big on things not being transactional . I will not sleep with you for a meal . But in time, if I genuinely like you then we can sleep together. But I’m not a prostitute or a call girl, I think a lot of people call prostitution sugaring but if your SD actually is genuine it’s not them buying a room and sleeping with you. It’s experiences, trips, check ins etc. I’m also a dominatrix. 7. Any outside the club stories with customers? Lol these men are CRAZY but I like it. I had a man ask me to make fun of his dick, kick his penis spit on him and say the most vile shit for 600 bucks. Someone wanted me to make him eat my shit for 450, I can’t get with bodily fluids so I declined but yesssss you’d be surprised how freaked out these men are ! This one is normal, but I ate dinner and went to a bar with this man and I hung out with his friends. It was cool, he went to pay me but I really had such a nice time I told him don’t worry about it . We still converse, I left the club I met him at though but he texts and he’salways very respectful but this really was a reminder there are decent people out there. Sometimes it doesn’t feel like it tbh . 8. What do you like what customers wear? What do you hate that they wear? I do not really care what they wear as long as you don’t stink. I refuse to go up to a vile smelling customer lol I’m cool… 9. What's one move in bed that guys do that turns you on? What one move in bed you like to do to guys/girls? Depends on my mood. I like submission. That really gets me going. I like a man on his knees doing as he’s told. The fact I can smile and make someone do something because I said so is a huge turn on to me. I’m a switch. So…even though ideally my life partner would be submissive, I like getting thrown around too lol. 10. Have you ever fallen for a customer? Has a customer ever got pissed off at you? Fallen…hmm not yet I am talking to a customer..it was odd at first but I am happy. I have a huge soft spot for a simp🥰 He’s no longer allowed to go to the strip club so he’s no longer a customer 🤭. I am the strip club. But he’s happy that way, he has a dom. I am not his master yet but we are happy where we are and are taking it slow. I wouldn’t say I’m in love, we have much to learn about each other but genuinely he intrigues me. He’s my sub. Our relationship is open well one sided. He BETTER not😂 a customer has gotten pissed I don’t do extras I think that’s common for a customer to get mad at. 11. What kind of customers do you target? What kind of customers seem to target you? I target customers for what I really want to do. Sugaring or femdom. Every man wants a fantasy. I do not want the raunchy men who want to have sex for a few dollars, I want the men that just had a long day at work, are at the bar because they are lonely work a lot and need company. Also the freaked out submissives really do reside in the club. My look is alternative. I attract them often. 12. How has this website been so far? This website is cool most of you are cool, but some of you can have a giant glass of stfu . 13. You enjoy the tip walk? Awkward and/or good way to get money? It’s only awkward if you make it awkward if a man says no I just keep it pushing . I like the tip walks some clubs I went to didn’t have tip walks. I think the tip walk helps you with dances and figuring out who wants to converse with you or get couch dances 14. What one thing customers do that turns you on? (not give you money) Turns you off? (not not give your money) The only thing a customer can do that will genuinely make me smile is buy me a drink and converse with me then pay me. I know you said besides give me money. But tons of men want the same thing during my shift. Being mentally stimulated, brought a drink, and compensated makes me view you different. And I’ll guaranteed remember your name and what we conversed about. Big turn off is being rough or overly sexual in a conversation…especially if you aren’t even throwing money down to go with your fantasy 😂 15. Best spot to eat in the Philly area? What kind of food? For dessert banana moose is really good! Get the shakes! And I’ve been on an African food wave Nafisas Kitchen is delicious! 16. Met any tusclers yet? No I haven’t if you wanna be my little piggy 🐷 or my SD hit me up 😜 17. What kind of music you into/dance to? Varies! I listen to rock, r&b alternative music indie. I really am not the biggest fan of rap it’s a couple catchy songs I like and know from working in a club but…yeah no lol 18. Any good old club/dressing room drama stories? I mind my damn business work and get out. I’m an unproblematic queen lol. So no stories !

And my demographic for my clients that I dominate are usually white collar men, so that’s why I wanted to work in a place like it. I ended up dudding it because the opportunity that presented itself, however there was a method to my madness.

I mean I hear you. I am a financial dominatrix and a SB, so with that being said, I can talk a boot off a boot. And I do get money for conversing. People like my vernacular. I figured I’d incorporate dancing into it cause I’d meet more people off of sugaring websites. I can work a pole, but ultimately, sugaring is my thing and believe it or not, many men’s fantasy is not just throwing ass, it’s feeling wanted. The customers want me most definitely. The managers don’t. But I hear you lol

I’m DEAD. What is acting “white”. Atp this has become too much, thank you all to everyone who had advice of use to give. I ended up meeting an owner of a club that I actually tried to audition at(they wouldn’t even let me). He looked at me said he didn’t understand why they wouldn’t let me audition if he was in he’d have hired me on the spot. Regardless it put things into perspective. It really is a cap most times if it’s managed by someone who is not black. (The owner was black) Anyway he doesn’t want me to dance, (couldve if I wanted to) but im a bottle girl. Plus he spoils me with 1500 a week. I’m cool with that and I like that idea more . I found a solution, I’m outside on trips, and it all worked out in the end 😂 still getting my degree though!

Maybe the ink is a factor at some places I’ve auditioned because most of the girls are pretty bare at some of these places.

I think it’s the fear of bringing in black girls then the club attracts a more urban crowd then it becomes more urban. It’s fucked up but it is what it is I guess

Thank you! I appreciate it the colorism in the dancer world is CRAZY

I’m about to get a second round though, to fill in my hips more. I like my natural look I got going on, it matches my thighs and when I’m walking around nobody can clock I had work done which I love. My stomach is flat but I do have some loose skin obviously in my boobs and my tummy cause I lost 80 lbs. but the men are not noticing that AT ALL😂😭. I even had one guy literally tell the manager to hire me on the spot at an amateur night but y’all obviously know how that went lol!

I just uploaded a picture of myself, my bbl is very natural, I lost 80 lbs so they literally didn’t have any fat to take out really when they were performing the procedure. As y’all can see I’m not necessarily fat, I’m thicker, my curves aren’t crazy but my stomach is flat with no backrolls and I’m solid 😅

It’s cool though imma try this place my dancer friend works at and if that doesn’t work f it, it’s a sign lol Im about to get my degree anyway. I just was trying to stack my coins.

Im not trimming down any lol my stomach is flat and I’m a DDD. I had a bbl. There’s no pudge or backrolls. I pole and powerlift. Im thick, not fat.

I don’t get down with extras. Creekside was really pretty but they didn’t hire me. I’ll try the other 3, thanks

I will travel. Im a trained pole dancer so urban clubs aren’t my thing. I don’t want to just shake ass all day. I know I want to work at a more upscale gentleman’s club. I know all different clubs have a different vibe. I’ve been to Eastern PA and Philly alike even South Jersey ( not so much Jersey though)

Thanks for the idea! I’ll move to Reddit! I appreciate the compliment ! You’d be surprised the hiring process has been a headache to say the least. I’m out here going upside down, air walking not getting any call backs. It’s baffling really

I know a girl who walks around with a plug in her bum