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@RonJaxx2 - I’m with you. Something like asking a dancer what her plans might be in the future never really crossed my mind as being too personal. The way @BubbleYum described the situation though, it almost felt like they were being self-righteous ‘white knights’ trying to make her feel badly for being a dancer. Though none of that seemed to bother them when they were being inappropriate with her and hoping to “Get here out of there.” 🙄 I’m with you on your second point as well. I’m one of those awkward guys who has a hard time being ‘confident’ around dancers let alone smooth with the conversation. Don’t get me wrong, I’m trying to improve - but sometimes thoughts like “Should I ask if I can do this or that? Or should I maybe just try and see what happens?” runs through my mind. I’m more like you where I try to be respectful and I always ask about touching, or like in your story, I would place the money following her lead. But sometimes during dances, I feel like I should be more ‘assertive’ and take chances. Not in a creepy way, but maybe if I’m getting several dances and my hands have been pretty much allowed to roam, should I slowly work my way to touching her ‘there’? It seems like some guys are all about implicit consent, and might slowly make the approach of touching a girl outside her panties without asking, going for nipple licks, or kissing. etc. Of course, if the girl stops them or tells them she doesn’t allow that, they’d stop. They’re not being total assholes, just taking the chance to see what she’s open to. And sometimes that works out, and sometimes it doesn’t. But it isn’t something they ‘ok’d’ with her first, they just go for it, hoping the girl likes their money and/or them enough to let them. Maybe if that guy had gotten to know her for five minutes, BubbleYum wouldn’t have been put off by him touching bet without asking. Ultimately though, I’d love to hear @BubbleYum’s thoughts on it if she sees this. I love having her point of view to reflect on my own experiences and see where I can improve on things.

Thanks dowler86. It’s in severe need of a trimming down but considering Lust doesn’t have many glowing or very detailed reviews, I’m happy with it.

Praying Mantis Hooker: *taps her feet* do you have my money or don’t you? Praying Mantis John: Yeah, it’s here... * shuffles through his pockets* somewhere... Praying Mantis Hooker: *starts to get irritated* Come on, if you don’t have it just say so! *huffs angrily* You’re wasting my time! Praying Mantis John: *snaps back at her in frustration* Geeze, you don’t have to bite my head off! Praying Mantis Hooker: *smirks then chuckles * you couldn’t afford it honey. *flies away*

Thanks for the comments all. I knew this was going to be too long when I finished it but I had fun writing it anyways. I appreciate your criticism wallanon and I’ll try to keep things less wordy in the future. Papi_Chulo you’re right about those two being excellent reviewers and ones to look to for writing tips.