I find it to be a huge turn off if the dancer won't make eye contact. I had a dance several months ago from a beautiful girl but she looked up at the ceiling the whole time. Ticked me off so the session did last very long.
I prefer to be asked, I guess it's an ego thing. But, there have been occasions where it was just too good to pass up, so I asked. Also, if you appear to be eager, you're more apt to be taken advantage of.
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