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7 years ago
I had sex with 2 strippers, and I'll share how I was with first one.
It was in 2008 after I got back from combat. My wife left me while I was gone. All I had after the Army was an old Jeep, a small apartment and some leftover savings. I'd go to this one strip club during the day just to drink. I suppose I knew I wanted to have sex with a stripper because I started playing games. Here's what I did:
-I always tipped and was never cheap
-NEVER got a lap dance
-Never let a girl catch me looking at her body for more than a split second
-Always ask the strippers about themselves and was super mystical when they asked about me. For example: so what's your job? "This and that."
-I never went at night
-I would watch the TV more than the girls, and sit alone
This one stripper Megan would flirt with me, and I'd encourage her to work the room instead. Finally I could tell she was losing money to hang out with me. Eventually she invited me to meet her in the parking lot. We went to my car and hooked up.
Then she invited me to meet her out. We went and bought cocaine (which I never did, but who cares?) and went back to my place. I knew her boyfriend was in rehab, but I didn't care because I was just cheated on.
She was pretty hot. Blonde with perfect tits and a nice young looking body. She told me she let a guy eat her once during a lap dance but that was it.
We went at it for hours, and the psychology of banging a stripper was amayzing. Honestly, she said some stuff during sex that still drives me wild today. We were together a few more times until her boyfriend got back. After all, I wasn't going to date her. She was one of the most honest people I ever met which was nice after being deceived. She told her BF what happened and he called me, and I convinced him to forgive her. Then I told him to wash his sheets! Haha kidding.
If you want to be with a stripper you must have your game face on and never deviate from the plan. If you get a couch dance, brag about yourself or stare at ass, you're going to be just another Joe and they'll never be interested. Basically do the opposite of what everyone in a strip club does.
Be mystical, polite, a little cocky and a somewhat damaged, and you'll get one. As for me, I'm average looking but tall. I was 28 at the time.
It gave me so much confidence that a year or so later I was dating my college professor. But that's a story for another time.