When seeking an LDK, I have always just used an un-lubed condom. The fact that they are smaller than what I use for "normal" activities, and dry, helps prevent them from coming off prior to use, as I too tend to be a grower and not a shower. Typically, effective application still requires at least a partial chub, but things seem to remain in place even with some shrinkage in between application and use. Coupled with thin athletic shorts, I used to be able to take care of business in 2-3 songs. Unfortunately, since beginning ADD meds last year, LDKs have become damn near impossible to achieve these days, at least not within my desired timeframe and budget.
I've only gone there in the afternoon and very early evening, and have never felt uncomfortable. I don't think I'd really want to be in ANY SC after 2AM.
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