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Getting nervous at first is understandable, I guess. I think part of the experience, at least for me, is feeling more confident as you engage in the fantasy. Recently I've had extras from 3 different women ITC in the regular lap dance area. If they're rubbing it a lot, just ask them if they want to see it. If they say yes, whip it out. You can also ask them to kiss it if you want. They may talk about paying extra and if they do I'm shutting that down. They can just jerk it or whatever. But I've had a girl spit on it for that extra lube on a tug and even had a couple of brief BJs. That's with another dance going on a few feet away from me. Sometimes you hear about a camera but I don't believe them since she wouldn't be sucking if there were. VIP room isn't something I'd be interested in regularly, you never know what's gonna happen in there.

If anyone approaches me before I finish my first round of drinks, you're gonna get declined. Let me chill

The regular dances are definitely ymmv I've had anywhere from air dances to kissing to even having one stroke my dick at a regular dance. I've even been offered to fuck in VIP. Just depends on you and the girl and if you're a regular I guess