CAGA - I am a nerd. I am smart. I'm not some hysterical young thing. I never planned to post this thread. Username was created when I signed up to anonymously search through the 3 clubs I know 'his' stripper has worked at.
If this happened to me when I was 20 I would be posting her name and clubs and having a general fit.
Not a troll, just collecting data points on chances of making good money fast.
Cashman1234 - I think besides my now almost exbf making me feel like crap by telling me how perfect his little burnette marilyn spinner stripper is, I am hard on myself because I was very skinny for a long time. So even though I still get attention from guys and am attractive and young looking for my age (i still do some promotional modeling when web design burns me out) I am trying to convince myself I could make money at a curvier size.
One reason I thought what the hell and posted here. Some interesting replies. More than stripperweb. It's crickets over there with my problem.
ilbbaicnl - Good advise. I have been to one with "him" a few years ago. I didn't look at any of the patrons there and don't know how going to one just to watch would impact my decision. Worth a try though. I'd probably just end up talking to a girl and telling her my sitch and she would say my ex is a bastard and I should work at a strip just to get back at him. But this isn't so much about revenge as honestly getting some quick cash.
Need to move out.
Dominic77 - Why would I show men who pay to see women's breasts for free on here. And your story about your wife is hilarious. This literally JUST happened to me. I am sure she didn't pick up and move on asap. Unless she's a sociopath.
Shailynn - His Mother is big feminist. Of course she would die if she knew he left me for a stripper, but I will never tell her. So his attitude is that women help equally. Although if I think of my money going to the stripper directly, it hurts my brain.
So I guess my takeaway from replies is that yes some men would find me tipable [ i know it's not a real word] and to not fret about it.
Also I will say that if any of you reading this have a girl who loves you, who is crazy about you, don't screw her over if you fall for a stripper and that stripper actually likes you too. Particularly if the girl who loves you is helping you pay your bills.
PAX
To 1st reply:
Not a fake story. I joined this site and paid 6.95 because I was neurotically looking to see if there were any reviews about the stripper at the clubs she has worked at (yes I know her stripper name and the places she has worked at). Which sounds crazy, but hey I am majorly broken hearted.
And honestly may be I am brainwashed but the lt bf has made me feel like only tiny, petite strippers are worthwhile and make money. And the only time I went with him to a strip club, I only saw 100 pound A cup gals.
So I was just feeling out what the general male consensus is on this.
I've also posted this on stripper web, so I am interest to see all feedback from actual customers to actual strippers.
Thanks
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