Comments by hobnoby

So last night we went out to saphires. The women were gorgeous and they really knew what to do when it comes to couples. For example a lot of women came over and first offered dances to my wife. My wife proceeded to tell them to dance for me. We were so close together that the strippers were basicly giving us both dances. They really knew how ro proceed slowly and with caution. Throught the night We got a couple of dances on the floor but no vip. The dances on the floor was as far as my wife was willing to go. It was a lot of fun we drank we laughed alot we definetly want to do it again. It wasn't a sexualy fulfilling time for me but it was a lot of fun it was a good laugh for bother oF us. My wife was very shy and laughing when the dancers danced for her. I was hoping my wife would be more into it but Like you all advised I will need to take it slow. I am a very lucky man that my wife was willing to take ot this far. Also it was a big turn on to watch my wife touch another hot women. Overall we both had a great time and my marriage is still intact. We came home and had really good sex my wife was very turned on. I guess you have to know your wife. I knew my wife is not the extra jealous type so this can work. THANKS EVERYONE.

Your right i admit it i cant help it i really want to see my wife having some girl on girl action it will make me really horny. I think it will make her horny too. I will let you know how it goes. The wife is coming have to go. Thanks for the advice everyone

Georgemicrodong you sound really scared of women. But I will listen to your advice I will make it all about her. That's what it's all about. I know she likes women and that the only reason I have been bothering her because I am completely willing and excited to let her fulfill a fantasy of hers. I don't care of we walk out of that club and I have not gotten any attention from a dingle dancer. All I want is the visual of her getting a lap dance and getting turned on by it.

Dancer95 you probably would be a perfect husband but would you be a perfect wife. My wife is the perfect wife for suggesting to go to a strip club. From my perspective going together will only strengthen our marriage. It's much better than going alone behind her back.

I also don't think my wife is as complicated as that. If she says she wants to go she really does there is no hidden agendas or anything like that.

I disagree with all of you my wife is not upset at me she wants to try it. Also every guy here will agree that she is the best wife ever for suggesting it

Johnsmith69 you may be saying some truth but the opportunity is too golden I will go to penthouse and scores like dancer95 suggested. If anyone knows of any place in NJ or upstate ny that's worth the drive please let me know.

Fyi she brought it up. She suggested it now. I asked like ten times in the past and it was always a maybey. Yesterday she suggested that she has been fantasizing a lot about it and wants to try it. When that happens I really don't think it's going to fuck up our marriage.

I am not going to push her into anything she doesn't want to do. If money is not an issue and I know I won't fuck up my marriage which club would you reccomend even willing to drive an hour or two

I don't need the strippers to play with me IF I wanted that I would go alone i need the strippers to pay attention to my wife and make it a positive good experience

Yes I mean petting and allowing my wife to pet as well. Also I want to make sure the women are really pretty that's going to be important. Are strippers generally ok with women/ couples in the vip?

By extra I mean a little bit of touching in the right places

No your wrong she is very into it she wants to do it I just want it to be a good experience for her.