ChiDet

Men love rejection at least as much as women. We even came up with an euphemism: the 'hunt'. If there's no risk (of rejection/failure/competition), then it'd just be a buffet. So I would agree with GACA in the sense that there's no need to ask girls why they are attracted to assholes. Just ask yourself why you're attracted to the female equivalent. These categories aren't mutually exclusive. Most people have been an asshole at some point and been burned by one at others. It reminds me of one of the more insightful points on this topic. The rapper Ice Cube was being interviewed in the documentary 'Good Hair' (which itself was on an entirely different topic) when he said, to have power over a woman you gotta be "fly'er" than her. Not saying nice guys ain't fly guys, but nice guys probably don't like a worldview where there's "fly" and fly'er", aka hierarchy. They also probably don't like to view male-female dynamics (aka human sexual selection) as one dealing with the notion of power. Which is a very 'nice' perspective, and I hope more people proscribe to that (more pussy for those of us that don't). But until then, as Freud explained, everything is about sex, except sex which is about power.

That ish is funny.

Here in Detroit, there are several agencies that will staff the clubs (and bars and nightclubs) with dancers, shot girls, etc. I know girls who started off as nightclub go-go dancers and were then recommended by their agency to strip clubs, usually with a pitch that goes, 'try it because you'll love the money you make'. Apparently, these agencies have full-on corporate offices where auditions are held and have on-site tanning beds, make-up and hair stylists. They also provide some semblance of health insurance as well as housing setups for girls not from the area. In turn, this system has implications on who the clubs hire as managers, as I've talked to a guy who claims to be a partner of an agency.

Too funny

-out goes to.*