Comments by boboh

Yes agree. More to the point are there strippers happy to be keeping up this relationship? Its a lot of work to be texting all the time for months straight if no arrangement is being made, no? Or does it ensure visits back at the club. Especially if dancer is changing clubs.

And do you think it's possible to have built a relationship with an ATF outside the club if sex wasnt part of the equation? Friends? Would a dancer even waste her time? What's in it for her?

DC9428 Not putting down the dancers. Questioning if a guy isnt aggressive or direct will he get extras from a girl who does them? Especially if he becomes a regular. Are dancers trying to do the bare minimum to make money. If a guy isnt a creep and is respectful will she give him the same treatment as others. Or is it based on attraction.

I've read reviews on this extras girl and they go both ways, some say a waste of time and others leave happy after only 3 dances. Just creep factor? How many guys are really friends with their atf? Texting without meet ups seems like a total waste of time if no fucking is happening. Time is money, right?

Thanks that's helpful. He did follow her to three SCs although he was only good for several dances once a month..not exactly paying the bills. Butvi guess a regular is still a regular? They texted and emailed hundreds of messages. And it's possible he put himself in the friend zone...but I just dont understand what's in it for her unless she is making money somehow. Not all strippers are the same, but if shes giving other men all access why would the story change for him? Especially since she liked talking to him so much? I dont want to be quick to judge and throw it all away. It just doesn't add up.

Yep, that's what I thought. I don't want to take you off topic. I was just looking for some unfiltered honesty. I mean is there any other reason to be talking to a stripper outside the club?