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11 years ago
you sound super sweet to be so involved with that poor girls problems. I do think though as a whole strippers get a bad rap. I'm sure if you broke down the jobs of every woman who ever cheated or stole or did drugs. Most of them are not strippers. And I know plenty of girls who never got topless or sat on someone's lap for money but do it for free just about every weekend with guys they just meet and call it a fun Saturday night out.
I appreciate people wanting to pigeon hole strippers because wouldn't life be easy if a label describes thousands of people to a tee in one hit...but I'm a dancer and I don't do drugs and I don't cheat on the man I'm exclusive with.
I think to get involved with any drug addict, dancer or not. Is super risky. It can't be helped or cured by change of vocation alone. I don't plan on doing this much longer but it works right now. And a lot of jobs are much more disturbing like people that have to deal with blood or criminally insane.. Stripping isn't exactly horrific work albeit very hard on your body and mind 30-40 hrs a week on your feet in painful heels, playing tactical defense with some men much bigger than you, trying to make a new sale every 20-30 minutes n looking perfect n being happy the whole time..
That all being said I'm well aware my job sux for the man I'm involved with and any thought of any serious relationship would have to start with a long talk about how I pay my bills, and probably would end in me finding a new job or him leaving.
But for now it's pretty casual but exclusive and no sex with anyone else and that's fine by me.
I can only trust what he brings to the table but as far as I know. It's just me and him where it counts.
article comment
11 years ago
you sound super sweet to be so involved with that poor girls problems. I do think though as a whole strippers get a bad rap. I'm sure if you broke down the jobs of every woman who ever cheated or stole or did drugs. Most of them are not strippers. And I know plenty of girls who never got topless or sat on someone's lap for money but do it for free just about every weekend with guys they just meet and call it a fun Saturday night out.
I appreciate people wanting to pigeon hole strippers because wouldn't life be easy if a label describes thousands of people to a tee in one hit...but I'm a dancer and I don't do drugs and I don't cheat on the man I'm exclusive with.
I think to get involved with any drug addict, dancer or not. Is super risky. It can't be helped or cured by change of vocation alone. I don't plan on doing this much longer but it works right now. And a lot of jobs are much more disturbing like people that have to deal with blood or criminally insane.. Stripping isn't exactly horrific work albeit very hard on your body and mind 30-40 hrs a week on your feet in painful heels, playing tactical defense with some men much bigger than you, trying to make a new sale every 20-30 minutes n looking perfect n being happy the whole time..
That all being said I'm well aware my job sux for the man I'm involved with and any thought of any serious relationship would have to start with a long talk about how I pay my bills, and probably would end in me finding a new job or him leaving.
But for now it's pretty casual but exclusive and no sex with anyone else and that's fine by me.
I can only trust what he brings to the table but as far as I know. It's just me and him where it counts.
article comment
11 years ago
That's a best seller right there and I'm sure it's only the half of it.. And you sound super sweet to be so involved with that poor girls problems. I do think though as a whole strippers get a bad rap. I'm sure if you broke down the jobs of every woman who ever cheated or stole or did drugs. Most of them are not strippers. And I know plenty of girls who never got topless or sat on someone's lap for money but do it for free just about every weekend with guys they just meet and call it a fun Saturday night out.
I appreciate people wanting to pigeon hole strippers because wouldn't life be easy if a label describes thousands of people to a tee in one hit...but I'm a dancer and I don't do drugs and I don't cheat on the man I'm exclusive with.
I think to get involved with any drug addict, dancer or not. Is super risky. It can't be helped or cured by change of vocation alone.
That all being said I'm well aware my job sux for the man I'm involved with and any thought of any serious relationship would have to start with a long talk about how I pay my bills, and probably would end in me finding a new job or him leaving.
But for now it's pretty casual but exclusive and no sex with anyone else and that's fine by me.
I can only trust what he brings to the table but as far as I know. It's just me and him where it counts.
article comment
11 years ago
That's a best seller right there and I'm sure it's only the half of it.. And you sound super sweet to be so involved with that poor girls problems. I do think though as a whole strippers get a bad rap. I'm sure if you broke down the jobs of every woman who ever cheated or stole or did drugs. Most of them are not strippers. And I know plenty of girls who never got topless or sat on someone's lap for money but do it for free just about every weekend with guys they just meet and call it a fun Saturday night out.
I appreciate people wanting to pigeon hole strippers because wouldn't life be easy if a label describes thousands of people to a tee in one hit...but I'm a dancer and I don't do drugs and I don't cheat on the man I'm exclusive with.
I think to get involved with any drug addict, dancer or not. Is super risky. It can't be helped or cured by change of vocation alone.
That all being said I'm well aware my job sux for the man I'm involved with and any thought of any serious relationship would have to start with a long talk about how I pay my bills, and probably would end in me finding a new job or him leaving.
But for now it's pretty casual but exclusive and no sex with anyone else and that's fine by me.
I can only trust what he brings to the table but as far as I know. It's just me and him where it counts.
article comment
11 years ago
I dance and I'm sleeping with someone exclusively. I don't cheat on guys I'm dating hence the reason I'm dating them, I like them only. That being said I understand my job sux from his point of view and wouldn't expect anything serious in the future building way without a long talk about it. I don't understand all the problems guys have with the 'morals' of a stripper.. I know PLENTY of girls who do not dance and who do a lot more than an entertainer does for free and just call it a fun Saturday night. And that's usually kept on the DL.. At least w a stripper you most likely know what the deal is up front and if you really don't want her touching another guy ever. Help her find a new job. She's prob given so many dances the thought of only being with you forever would be a relief. She's got nothing to get out of her system.
All this talk of thieves and lying... I'm sure statistically the number of women who rob and cheat their husbands are majority women who do not dance. There is no guarantee either way. I do think though if your partner is a drug addict.. Be careful regardless of their job. That's a problem not solved by change of vocation.