discussion comment
11 years ago
i would like to thank everyone for their insight, i drove over two hours (as i did back in June) to get to that club last night since the clubs in my town have pretty strict rules (particularly with private dances) so needless to say it was pretty disappointing to leave without a private dance, since that was one of the main reason i made the long drive to get there, the only advantage i ended up getting for my long drive was getting to go up to the stage and interact with the girls a little instead of having to stay 3 feet away from the stage like i would have to do in my city,
i even told the one dancer that sat with me that i had traveled from my city to get there, because the clubs in my city suck, i figured this would let her know that i was serious about having some fun there and she would ask any minute if i wanted a dance, but instead she left my table a couple minutes later and went and started talking to some guy at the bar,
so i dunno maybe this was the wrong strategy for me, maybe she figured i had already spent all my money on gas just to get to that club, or maybe she just doesn't like outsiders, i dunno, maybe i should pretend to be a local next time?
i'm kinda thinking now that i should have just asked a couple of girls there for a dance, but i guess i was kinda caught off guard since, like jack, i've normally had to beat the dancers off with a stick (regardless of what city i was in) although i've never really had much luck with that and would just buy as few dancers as possible from the dancers i wasn't interested in just to get rid of them and still keep my wallet relatively intact, but i've also had plently of hot dancers approach me as well, so i've always just taken the good with the bad, i was expecting last night to be the same, oh well, live and learn i guess,
i might take another trip down there in a couple of weeks and maybe visit a different club, and maybe take matters into my own hands if i have to using some of the suggestions you guys have made in these two threads