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8 years ago
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GACAUn-retired: Met my ATF. Married her. Divorcing her.
The two main pitfalls are being unable to walk away from a nightmare and wanting more than she's capable of giving you.
Long term OTC can be amazing, assuming you're avoiding an absolute trainwreck of a human being. I've never encountered any of the stripper shit I've seen on these threads. None. In many ways long term OTC can resemble casual dating, but the money smooths over a lot of the rough edges, so long as you remain in control of your boundaries with her. Fuck someone often enough and feelings are likely to occur and you might find yourself wanting more from your beautiful 20-something. I've had two long term OTC relationships that continued after I stopped helping them out financially. I reciprocated their feelings, which allowed for it to go beyond a convenient arrangement. Eventually, these 20-somethings will want to get on with their lives and move on from you. You're part of her learning process. Don't get upset. They don't owe you anything. Both of you traded for what you wanted at the time. Just be glad you helped her out and find a new girl to have fun with. Don't want more than she's capable of giving you and if she's not giving you what you want, find someone else who will.
Acting like a white knight is a sign of you wanting more than she's capable of giving and/or a distorted image of what you think you deserve. That will wind up bad for you. Help her if you want, but don't try to fix her. You can't.
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6 years ago
Remember the girl's name?
review comment
6 years ago
If the Asian girl was Layla, she doesn't do extras, or at least she didn't when I was looking. In my xp, more girls here do than don't.
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6 years ago
Ruby always seemed sensual and into it whenever I danced with her. I don't know, maybe some interpret that as her being mechanical and going through the motions. Haven't danced with her in a few years though. OTOH, I found Cayanne mechanical, yet some guys think she's great. Different strokes, I guess.
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6 years ago
Thanks for the warning. I've been to the Tom's River club. Been back with several and all delivered their end of the deal. TR girls understand a happy monger comes back to see them.
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6 years ago
You want info on Angel, but offer no info on the VIP you say you did?
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6 years ago
Your observations about club and dancers match mine. Haven't done a VIP with Liz, but did one dance with her and passed on the vip, sensing more sales pitch than delivery. Sasha is good in the VIP. Treat her well and she'll do the same to you.
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7 years ago
Agree. Not really a great spot for dances, but a pretty good place to grab a beer.
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7 years ago
Minor correction. Dances as 25.
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7 years ago
Though at this club, the younger chicks are 30 years old. Lol.
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7 years ago
It's been like that all summer and I've stopped going here for a while. Probably pick up when summer is over.