Comments by hardman

Women consistently tell me I have a "classically shaped" penis, usually the first time they see it and play with. It's a wonderful compliment to receive, I must tell you. I am also significantly longer than the average when but only once has a woman commented on my length. I think women appreciate shape (including girth) and symmetry as much or more than length. And most of all they appreciate how skillfully you can fuck them with whatever you got.

As long as the seat has some cushion against my back, I'm happy to slide down. As others have mentioned, she is in a better position to give me a high friction dance. I've also found that girls who ask for this are more comfortable with the idea that I'm going to get hard during the dance and the various things that might occur as a result. She's more likely to understand exactly how I want my cock to lay so she can give me the most pleasure during the dance. She's more likely to not be bothered if my erection starts to poke out from the top of my pants. And she is more likely to get me off during the dance, and girls who ask to slide down seems to expect and try to make this happen.

I generally prioritize looks and cleanliness over advertised extras. In this club, that means sometimes I go home without getting any dances.

It's all about the money regardless. Women are transactional toward men. Attractive women learn early how to sell a smile, friendship, or access to her body. If you want her to respect you, treat her like she's replaceable.