Comments by Riv

Rick, forgot to also add that the spot I spent about $600 on, was a well-known Long Island spot.

Jpac, these girls are the total opposite of ghetto. I don't touch ghetto chicks, that's one rule with me. They turn me off.

Rick, Jpac, what attitude are you talking about? What's wrong with my attitude? I'm lost.

Rick, you also mention "toughening up", lol. Bro, I'm one of the most non-chumpish guys you'll ever meet when it comes to dealing with women. I always stand my ground and don't kiss ass at all, and don't supplicate like a lot of guys do. Not a push over by any stretch. I'm a total "wham bam thank you mam" type of guy. That's not to say that I'm a dick to women either or am not nice; I'm just not your average chumpish pushover.

RickDugan, if you mean by "needy" that I'm looking to bond with these chicks on some kind of emotional type level or something, then you couldn't be further off the mark. I do however get really into the dances. But what guy doesn't? I definitely show that I'm enjoying the dance; I get hard, etc. It feels great, I really enjoy the moment. But again, what guy doesn't when some smokin' hot chick is rubbing her body all over his crotch? I couldn't see how this would be an issue though, afterall, again, what do the expect when they're giving guys lap dances. As far as giving off a weird vibe, I can't see anything that I could possibly be doing that is so bad that would make them go to such an extent as to ignore me(I can't find anything at all. I really wish I could find something). I mean, someone would have to be behaving really "out there" for me to avoid that person. And I would think dancers would be thinking along those same lines too. If I was so weird or needy, then why would a lot of these dancers grab my dick through my pants, let me suck on their necks, why would that one dancers that I spent about $600 on, suggest we maintain some kind of financial sex for money relationship. Why would she keep insisting I cum also during the dance? Really, if I was projecting such a weird vibe, or if I was so needy, why go this far with me? Doesn't make sense. Plus, I know I'm a perfectly normal dude. I have a good social life, have many friends, etc.

Someone wanted to know which state I live in, I live in N.Y. I frequent all the clubs in Queens and Long Island, and occasionally Manhattan.

I know this sounds strange and baffling, because it most certainly is, that's why I'm pulling my hair out over it. The chick I spent about $700 on was soooo into the dance; she was telling me to cum, to pretend like I was f*cking her in the ass, wanted to experiment in different dry humping positions; it was crazy. She even made a statement to me that she wanted to work out a financial arrangement with me where I'd take care of her financially in exchange for sex. She alluded to that in a round-about way it seemed, but I wasn't quite sure if that was what she meant. I can't remember her exact choice of words. Then before the private dance was over, I suggested we exchange phone numbers. She took mine down, but didn't want to give me hers. I found it a little weird, after it was her who hinted she wanted to have that financial arrangement with me. Then after that, the next time I came into the club, she seen me, she said "hi" from a distance, but didn't want to come up to me. Whenever I come to the club, she ignores me. Then there's this other chick; again, it's gonna be hard for you all to believe, but she ended up giving me a few FREE regular dances at her own will(even had no qualms about stroking my d*ck through the pants. but the next time I came into the club, she ignored me. So, I gave her the benefit of the doubt and called her over for a private dance $100 for 15 minutes. She gave me the dance and again had no qualms about stroking my dick through my pants. By this time, this chick CLEARLY has to know who I am. So, I go to this other club that I had no clue about her dancing there. She's talking to her friend at the other end of the bar when I walk in. She clearly see's me, but ignores me. Then I see her mumbling something to her friend, looking in my direction, as if she was talking crap about me. I'm saying to myself, "What the hell's up with this chick, I never said or did anything to her?" She never ended up coming over. Totally weird. The only thing I can think of, if anything, that might have bothered her, was suggesting she grab my d*ck in the last dance. But if that in fact was the thing that bothered her, then she should have never did it in my last two other dances with her. She wasn't forced, she could have said "no", and I would've been cool with it. Weird, weird, weird, is all I could say. Again, theses 2 dancers are just a few examples of the handful that ignore me, after spending a lot of money on private dances with them. But then yet at the same time, I'll have dancers I've spent a lot of money on who won't ignore me. I just can't figure it out. I've had 2 hot dancers in the past pull my d*ck out and start jerking me. Most of the time, everytime I get a dance, the dancers will grab my dick through the pants. I get that a lot. I don't know if that's a common thing at all. Anyhow, so yeah, it's very bizarre that I'm being ignored by a lot of dancers the next time they see me around, when I know they most certainly recognize me.

Lopaw, 110% positive I'm not giving off any negative vibe. Unless I'm not aware of something, but I highly, highly doubt that, as I'm very analytical about myself.

Sinclair, I don't expect them to like me for being a cool guy, I just expect them to come up to me and ask me for dances. You'd think since I've spent large amounts of money on them for private dances in the past, that they'd come over to me the next time I came in to try and make MORE money. But apparently they could care less about making money off of me.