Rick, you also mention "toughening up", lol. Bro, I'm one of the most non-chumpish guys you'll ever meet when it comes to dealing with women. I always stand my ground and don't kiss ass at all, and don't supplicate like a lot of guys do. Not a push over by any stretch. I'm a total "wham bam thank you mam" type of guy. That's not to say that I'm a dick to women either or am not nice; I'm just not your average chumpish pushover.
RickDugan, if you mean by "needy" that I'm looking to bond with these chicks on some kind of emotional type level or something, then you couldn't be further off the mark. I do however get really into the dances. But what guy doesn't? I definitely show that I'm enjoying the dance; I get hard, etc. It feels great, I really enjoy the moment. But again, what guy doesn't when some smokin' hot chick is rubbing her body all over his crotch? I couldn't see how this would be an issue though, afterall, again, what do the expect when they're giving guys lap dances.
As far as giving off a weird vibe, I can't see anything that I could possibly be doing that is so bad that would make them go to such an extent as to ignore me(I can't find anything at all. I really wish I could find something). I mean, someone would have to be behaving really "out there" for me to avoid that person. And I would think dancers would be thinking along those same lines too. If I was so weird or needy, then why would a lot of these dancers grab my dick through my pants, let me suck on their necks, why would that one dancers that I spent about $600 on, suggest we maintain some kind of financial sex for money relationship. Why would she keep insisting I cum also during the dance? Really, if I was projecting such a weird vibe, or if I was so needy, why go this far with me? Doesn't make sense. Plus, I know I'm a perfectly normal dude. I have a good social life, have many friends, etc.
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