benaround

I like to know what kind of club I am dealing with before I buy drinks. There are clubs where getting guys to buy overpriced drinks for the dancers is part of their tip out and if they don't get a drink or two bought they pay. Hate over priced dancer drinks but will buy one if I am spending some time with a lady and especially if I am getting one for myself. There are other clubs where the dancers are all business and will never stop long enough to have a drink with you and talk before getting down to business - hate that too. Finally there are clubs where the dancers drinks are the same as the customers and it is just a social decision. With the right lady it is a way to have them stay long enough to decide if I want to take them for a dance. If we do connect it is a way to keep them from drifting away to another table and sometimes they will loosen up a bit if it is early in the night. I am annoyed by having a dancer I want to move on insist on me buying them a drink and also I am annoyed when I buy a dancer a drink and she slams it down and leaves but better to find out she is a bitch over a drink than in the back room.

it has been a suckers game for years. Two girlfriends wanting to play with each other and get you to pay twice as much for half the attention. First time should be the last time - it was for me.

I also tried two dancers when I was young and foolish. Learned quickly they spent more time paying attention to each other than me and I was the one paying. Never again.

you may also be miss reading her quick approach to you. She may be cashing in on the patrons looking for just a dance or two and figures after you are all out of the way the big spender is good for some VIP time. Just a thought. Hate to burst your bubble but have seen it happen.

sounds like a good idea, tried it twice but have never had it work out. A lot of dancers try pushing this as a big turn on - they are scamming you. They take your money, ignore you and play with each other - if that is appealing knock yourself out. Do not count on being a significant part of the action. A lot of time it is a way for a cute girl to get some money for her plain friend. Forget it.