Big Daddy's Showclub

I did it again, I went back to this place that doesn't deserve for me to go back. I will say it was a Tuesday, so even my expectations were low anyway. The place is as it has always been, very large club, huge stage in the middle with multiple poles, bar is to the right and straight back are 2 pool tables. Walk in and get ID'ed, so that seems to be a new thing, pay $3 cover. $3 cover for 1 dancer. Beers are reasonable at like $3 ($5 for a dancer). Darker skinned girl of unknown ethnicity is on stage and an old guy is up getting free thrills as she dances for him while he doesn't tip. I end up going up and tipping her and she is darker skinned, but not seemingly AA, maybe middle eastern or East Indian or Latina. No accent at all, so likely born in the USA. Sit back down, older bartender who is apparently a retired dancer chats with me. Eventually the dancer is done, comes down to the bar and eventually makes her way over to me as I am the only customer other than cheap thrill old guy and a M/F couple playing pool. Small talk, very small talk, doesn't introduce herself, but I buy her a beer, some more small talk with her an the bartender and eventually I have to ask if she does dances before I just leave. She says yes so we go to the back wall, which is wide open and very well lit for anyone to see anything, and we get right into the dance with the song that is already on. Strike 1. It is almost 50% air dance, so strike 2. Onto the 2nd song, still minimal contact with the right parts. I was having my hands roam a bit on her ass and legs and back, but as I slid around to cop a feel of the tits she squeezed her arm against her body blocking me. Strike 3. I will say this, she had a very pretty face, okay body, probably 5'3", average build, but not overly heavy, decent B+ tits, but the face was very pretty. If there weren't 3 strikes I might have gotten more dances, but they were bad strikes. But after a real swing and a miss at the Hugger (will review later), I really wanted to get a dance or two. I will say this, if I go back to Big Daddy's, shame on me.

So, I did stop by here after a slow Hugger day just to see what was up. Saw a few cars in the parking lot and decided to go in. It was the same old place, nothing has really changed. No one on stage, a few custies at the bar and the 2 dancers that were there were at the bar as well. I went to the bar, ordered a beer and sat in between the 2 dancers and barely got any attention. Had money ready to have at least a few dances, didn't seem like that mattered. Anyway, the 2 dancers were Jenny and Nadia or something like that, a very Mom-ish looking brunette that had decent tits I believe was Jenny and was about a 5 grading on a curve, and a blond who was about a 4/5 at best. I am being generous, they were both not heavy or anything like that, just a little worn. They might've gotten higher scores if they gave any dances. The entire time I was there, I tipped both girls on the stage and neither asked for dances. I would've gotten a couple at least, but they were not interested. Nadia even said I smelled good and kept smelling me and I said "there's a way for you to smell closer up" and that was lost on her. I did feel bad for the dancers at both the Hugger and here with so few dancers where they had to be on stage in a short rotation. It was an interesting crowd, like any strip club, but I honestly wasn't in there to people watch so I am not bothering to comment. Would I go back? I say no, but if I strike out at Hugger like this again when in the area, I probably will, sadly.

Big Daddy's was a good club years ago. In my opinion it rivaled the Hugger. I use to alternate between the two. While Hugger always had more/better looking girls Big Daddy's at one time also had a decent amount of girls, some which were lookers themselves. The best part about Big Daddy's was the extra, guaranteed fun you could have upstairs in the VIP room. After the club got raided years ago for drugs and prostitution it went downhill and sadly never recovered. I still stop in once or twice a year just to see how things are looking, hoping to maybe find a diamond in the rough. After about 5 years now every single visit has not been good. I thought I'd share my very brief visit tonight just in case anyone else is curious about how its looking. Not good. Stopped by earlier tonight around 11:30 and the parking lot had quite a few vehicles. Unfortunately they were all customers. About 12 or so. Paid the $5 cover and used the restroom. Then I took a seat in one of the comfy chairs near the stage. Didn't go to the bar to order a drink and no one ever came by to ask in the 20 or so minutes I was there. Three girls working. All with guts. My biggest turn off. One on stage at a time while the other two sat at the bar, never going around to customers for tips or anything, not that I'm complaining. Eventually I got up and left. The visit was just as I expected. Its a shame. The club itself is large and open with comfy seating, in my opinion. Just not the quantity or quality of dancers to bring it back up. Also the lap dance area is right in the open, along the wall, on uncomfortable benches with the brightest lights in the club shining on them so it deters customers from wanting any dances. See you again in 10 or so months, Big Daddy's!

You don’t need a business degree from Harvard to run a strip club, but you do need some common sense. So whoever owns or manages this place, here is a tip. You need STRIPPERS! Like most people I visited the hugger in the afternoon. After seeing the to rotation and getting my normal handshake, I wanted to see some different tits. Drove over to the only other game in town. Probably around 4 in afternoon. Parking lot had 2 cars. I actually thought the place was closed. Door was unlocked and walked in. The place is a rough. Everything is old and the lights were turned on. No one on stage and an older female bartender. She actually looked shocked I was in there. Asked her if there were any strippers. Said two called in sick but more will be in shortly. They only other customer was passed out at the bar. Went to the restroom. Only one working toilet and gross. I tried not to touch anything as I quickly exited. Bartender asked if I wanted anything. Given the fact there were no strippers and how gross this place was, I passed. If you are looking for the best dive bar in Kokomo, head here. If you want strippers, head to the hugger.

After visit the nearby Hip Hugger earlier in the afternoon/evening I decided to make a first time visit to Big Daddy's. It quite likely will be my last. I arrived about 9:15pm and the woman at the door said they weren't charging a cover yet. That's the most positive thing to say, but upon entering I could see why. There were 4 dancers and about 3 other customers in the place. It's quite large with a large ~20 ft. circular center stage with walkway leading to it from the back. There are lots of seats around the stage, tables with comfortable chairs further away and two sets of stairs at the back leading up to what I assume are VIP or private dance areas. There are two poles near the start of the walkway to the stage and one near the stage center. The three dancers were OK, but probably I'd rate them about 5-6. All were white. A tip at the stage led the dancer to drop down onto a lower shelf below the elevated stage and give a tits to the face hug. I only bought a diet Coke for $3 so I can't comment on beer or mixed drink prices. I also didn't inquire about private dance costs given the low level of energy from the 4 dancers present. I spent less than 30 minutes there and as I was getting ready to leave it looked like a couple of the dancers were headed outside for a smoke break. Can't say that I blame them given the lack of customers. Maybe this place is better on a weekend night, but wasn't worth my time on this night.

Stopped by around 4pm Saturday afternoon. It's the long weekend and looks like strip clubs slow down in these parts during holiday weekends and end of month (what I heard from the girls). In between my visits to Hip Hugger I wanted to check this place out for a change. There were 3 cars in the parking lot. I walked in and it appeared the whole place was empty. You face the stage when you get in and the lights were off and nothing was going on. There was a brightly lit spot to my left and I looked over, it was the private dance area. There was one flabby girl dancing to a patron. I watched for a bit and could clearly see nothing going on but just air dancing. Withe the area so brightly lit, it appeared it was done on purpose. everything is watched. I heard a voice call out to me, greeting me. It was the bartender from the bar area to my right. There were couple of guys at the bar. I saw the old bar lady looking at me as to what I was planning to do. I did not want any part of this club and walked out and on my way to HH, realizing HH is the last hope in these parts, which as well is not as great as it used to be.