Guys and Gals let me begin by asking you a simple question: where does the Dancer - Patron relationship end and the human to human connection begin?
I would like you to consider that as I talk about a recent experience I have had. Im someone who goes all in, which at times hurts me. I met this girl, Etheria and I knew I was in deep trouble. She was sweet and funny and didn't feel like she only wanted my money. We exchanged numbers and dances were had and everything was going fine until today when I messaged her and she didn't respond all day. Totally normal right?
Wrong! You see I left out a key detail: I met her last Thursday, ie: like 5 days ago. I blew up her phone because I am a deeply lonely individual and appreciated the attention she gave me. I have no clue if we will be able to reconcile and maybe I am just overreacting (hint I probably am) but this is the issue of being a clingy person. You have to remember that you don't matter to them, to an extent, outside of the money you can give them, in the same way a pizza employee doesn't care outside of what pizza you want.
These girls are humans! And ultimately humans need space. Remember that.
Moral of the story? Don't be like me. Leave the girl alone, especially if you like her.
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