White Man, Black Club

The Purple Orchid in Philly is 99% WOC and those girls don't have any problem talking to white guys like me. If they did they'd go broke. What part of the country is your club in?

@LongLegs ATL. And she didn't say they had a problem, she said they didn't know how to talk to us. I think that's a big difference

I agree. I had a very popular black girl at the old Follies tell me the same thing.

Blacks can't talk to Whites, Whites can't talk to Blacks, young can't talk to old, women can't talk to men, Republicans can't talk to Democrats, and nobody can believe anything said by a politician. And I thought English was the country's "official language." No wonder we are so polarized.

I have heard of something similar from a dancer while in a club. She offered this up when I noticed no one was approaching a white guy in the club. This was a black club. She said most of these hoes don’t have no real interactions with anyone different from them so they get intimidated. Also she said her experience is that a lot of white men prefer the spinner girl type so the thick sistas would not even approach a white guy.

Intimidation / lack of confidence are the core reasons. It's unfortunate, as most white guys at a club wouldn't judge a girl for how she speaks, nor does a guy's skin color necessarily control what size or skin color of a girl that he prefers. I've had girls tell me they didn't approach me because they thought I preferred caramel over dark.

I've heard discussions about this before. As a black man, when in predominately clubs where white isn't the majority, I've rarely seen dancers shy about approaching any guy. I would see a many older white guys coming in and getting attention. The things I have seen and sometimes experienced is when a girl doesn't fluently speak english, she may avoid guys she thinks don't speak her language. Other girls just whip out the cell and use Google Translate and engage.

I (white and Hispanic) approached girls in black clubs and they approached me just like anywhere else. Only one color matters in a strip club. Green!

Any dancer of any race who has difficulty talking to guys of any race is a social misfit. There are dancers of all races who are socially calibrated and emotionally intelligent, and others who are psychopathic numbskulls. Race has nothing to do with it.

If the dancer is a hot spinner she could be smurf blue and I wouldn't care. I assume she'd feel the same about my wallet.