Feel free to PM me if needed, and I’m sure everyone has different experiences, but for the first time a dancer has suggested to me that we meet OTC.
To be clear I’m under no illusions that she likes me, and I fully anticipate giving a nice gift of cash for her time.
Does anyone have any tips about this that I don’t know? I’m assuming shes a pro…so I don’t think I’ll need to bring anything because she’ll be well prepared.
congrats
Congrats I’ve been trying to get my girl otc and no luck
How much do dancers usually want otc?
Median about 4 3 minimum, sometimes as high as a G (GPS)
@justwondering22 it varies heavily on locality and individual girls but i think what they would earn from an hour of selling dances at the club could be reasonable. Not what the club charges but what the dancer actually earns in an hour of VIP or nonstop dances. That could be a 250-500 range
@justwondering22 either she doesnt trust you (to be safe, to pay, to not be a cop, etc), or she just doesn’t do OTC in general. I definitely wouldnt buy ITC dances in the hopes she agrees to OTC. It could be a lot of money wasted
You’re gonna wake up in a tub full of ice, two missing kidneys and a phone next to the tub.
"You’re gonna wake up in a tub full of ice, two missing kidneys and a phone next to the tub." - urban myth. you never wake up. They take your heart, lungs, eyes and any other organs.
I like the version where there’s a note to use the phone and call 911.
People are so hypocritical.
Some guy donates a kidney, they call him a hero. I donate 5 kidneys, and they call me a monster.
don't assume she will have what you need. much like when you are at the club, confirm exact pricing and exactly what you are looking for ahead of time. Then confirm she has the tools you require. With both girls I was the one that had to provide it. I've met two separate girls OTC, one for car dates and one for hotel fun. Once you get everything set up the first time, the rest of the meetings end up being very easy.
Like you said, it doesn't mean that she likes you, but at the very least she trusts you.