Back with a question - couples in BOS/PVD

Why in the hell would anyone get their hopes up????

"Why in the hell would anyone get their hopes up????"

Lol. So I had a similar situation not that long ago with the girl I'm seeing. We happened to be in a town where I go to strip clubs, and she mentioned going to one because she knows I'm into them. Luckily the club I know she would've liked is temporarily closed, but the next best club is a problem because a dancer I used to fuck on the regular still works there. She's already lost it more than once when I've picked other girls instead of her, so taking a girl in with me was bound to be an awkward drunk moment.

"Would rather avoid Desire since I'm a little too known there, even if she knows I was a habitual goer, but if it's the best, that's cool too."

Unless you know your woman can handle meeting strippers you've pounded, I wouldn't take her to a club where you've been a regular.

Since you're not asking which clubs have bottles of Liberal tears for under $5, I don't believe you're the real PT.

^ Supply and demand. Oversupply of liberal tears makes them dirt cheap. However, info on couples-friendly places in New England are terra incognita for me. My girl knows I committed enough indiscretions.

I did a quick search of “Boston” on stripper subreddits and it lukewarm recommended Centerfolds if you absolutely want the Gentleman Club type of place but seemed to like Glass Slipper or Golden Banana or 10’s more. I trust stripper subreddits because the chances is that if those are clubs strippers are more likely to like (or at least not dislike), then even random women will probably like there too. Or at least like it more than Desire.

Some women think they would like going to a club but then once there, they decide they don’t. I would just pick a club that is convenient to another attraction and be ready to bail. Maybe even have something else scheduled like a concert or a movie or some gizmo sport derivative like Topgolf or whatnot and go to the club earlier in the afternoon/evening for a quick drink. If she likes it, go back to the club after the date elsewhere. If she doesn’t feel like going back, then it’s an easy out and enjoy the rest of the evening.

Strippers are often wary of wife/gf tag-a-longs, as they can have a chaperon at the school dance tude. She should have plenty of singles and been seen to be tipping fairly freely. If she's not comfortable doing that, a sucky time is almost guaranteed. I would feel more comfortable going with a woman to a club where I was known. Because my favs would know I wouldn't go with somebody who was going to be surly or weird towards them.

@nicespice - Thanks. It's not something my girl immediately wants to do but we've talked about it. Pretty sure I told her I've screwed girl at Desire and the VIP doorman and Vanessa the bartender remember my name. She was, for a "good girl," remarkably not-caring about my past.

@ilbbaicnl - It's true. We'll decide on ground rules in advance.

Been at it with my wife for a bit now. First club was Dancers in Indy, no extras and really traditional layout. I'm not familiar with New England, but you're best best is a nice to upscale place where the strippers are classy enough. There is no amount of prep or conversation that actually matters, once you're in and they see a topless or nude performer you'll be able to gauge her real reaction.

I'd go to Centerfolds, the classiest of the bunch, and the one where extras are so expensive you're unlkely to have ever done them there or wll n the future. And the women are the most attractive and it's nude, and it's tame.

Having taken my wife to many strip clubs this is my list: Rhode Island Dolls is very couple friendly and very low key; Boardroom would be #2.

Thanks, Skibum. My girl knows what a degenerate I used to be, and seemed fascinated when I told her, but I think the doormen and at least a handful of dancers being "hey, PuddyTat, how've you been?" and Vanessa the hot bartender remembering my order might be a bit much.

I've only been to Dolls once but Boardroom is closer and has a great vibe.

What about Mario's?

^ Mario's has been awful lately. I love the boardroom.