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The significance of the stripper's handshake:

Oct 23, 2025, 1:53 PM

I began SCing in January of 2024, and I have yet to become desensitized or immune to the stripper's handshake, and I don't think I will.

It feels really good. It's an ultimate tease and also a huge turn on.

A message is being sent, and the message is something along the lines of...Do you like that...I'll do more than that if the price is right.

I always feel so wanted when a woman puts her hand between my legs.

It's always such a pleasant surprise.

When it first happened it was such a surprise. I could hardly believe it. I had heard this was a thing, but it was now happening before me. The dancer in question also offered extras.

Another dancer I was a regular of she would greet me with it, a hug than putting her hand in-between my legs and rubbing.

Another occasion with yet another dancer we are sitting at the bar, it's a kiss on the cheek then the stripper's handshake.

It seems like 50% of the dancers I've encountered have given me the stripper's handshake.

I associate such a physical action, more than any other, as a prelude to sex.

This probably stems from past civie encounters.

Years upon years ago, I'm laying in bed with a lover/lady friend, and we had both fooled around and fucked most of the evening into the early morning hours, including kissing, massage, fingering her, her going down on me, sucking her tits, titty fucking, both of us masturbating, along with actual intercourse.

We had finally finished around 4:00 a.m.

We both fell asleep, I had put my boxer shorts on, and she remained nude.

We both woke up a few hours later. She then puts her hand in-between my legs, over the shorts and starts rubbing.

That was my cue to slide them off and stick my cock inside of her pussy and let her ride it before she left that morning.

In strip clubs, I have found that the stripper's handshake is the most direct pathway to getting extras. It's the signal, a door is being opened.

I once Googled something along the lines "How do you know if a stripper does extras ?"

For me, experience provided the answer of... she's putting her hand between your legs.

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shailynn2 months ago

Are you sure she’s not just reaching for your wallet and may be a little off target? - joke!!!!

Jascoi2 months ago

it is nice to have that experience, especially often... and I'm not talking about the wallet move. but yeah that happened to me.

PAWG_Patrol2 months ago

"It's the signal, a door is being opened."

100% agree. If she's willing to grab it otp during a lapper, that's my sign to ask for more in VIP. And the opposite is true too. If she won't touch it at all, or does the lame rubbing it with her knee... low mileage indicator.

Studme532 months ago

^100%

Pussylicker22 months ago

I like to pull my undies below my balls and unzip my fly before walking in tbe bar. When the dancer rubs my junk I slide it out. Or I might just whisper "you can take him out".

PAWG_Patrol2 months ago

Undies? Pants with fly? No way, I'm going commando with mesh shorts so I can just pop it out of my pant leg without even adjusting my waistband 🤣

Iknowbetter2 months ago

^ this made me laugh- thinking about Papi Chulo going to the club in pajama pants

Estafador2 months ago

While I do genuinely enjoy the ladies using their delicate feminine fingers along the Johnson, kind of getting bewildered why some ofnthem think it's OK to kiss me on the mouth.

Estafador2 months ago

Also I have NEVER heard of a strippers cues to want to fuck is giving your Jimmy a handshake. Thst works with civvies but strippers just want you to give them more money.

M_Scorpio_LFK2 months ago

@Estafador

I am not of the opinion that a stripper rubbing your cock is an automatic cue to fuck.

I have that mental pavlovian association, feel good feelings, dopamine associated with such an action, and whether from a civvie encounter or from a stripper, it's a huge turn on for me.

And it's usually a sign of a prelude to something. Like I said in the original post, a signal this is a dancer who does extras.

Example, I'm getting a lap dance from a lovely Latina. She has on a lime green, fishnet body suit. She says "I want to show you something." The something is exactly what I hoped it would be. She pulls the bottom of what she has on to the side and shows me her pussy.

She's on stage next, as I stand up she enthustically rubs between my legs, OTP.

I tip her while she's on stage. We met at the bar settle on the price for the VIP. When we are in the VIP, I unzip my pants, and what follows is a BBBJ.

So, in this encounter, the stripper's handshake wasn't a prelude to sex but a damn good blow job.