Have you ever had a extras dancer go clean on you?

Most of the time it’s been a result of the dancer being in a new relationship.

One girl in Raleigh was a very reliable HJ in a city bereft of extras. She went on vacation for a few weeks, came back and just couldn't do it anymore. She shifted to massage girl. Sucked for me, but I understand burnout and couldn't blame her.

I had one once who was reliable until she got pregnant. She had her baby, then she came back and couldn't even do BJ's anymore. I suspect that was all just having a baby. I eventually spotted her in a nonextras club, but never much paid any attention to her there.

Around 10 years ago I was in a club with 2 new dancers dancing their first time there. It turned out to be the only night they danced there. Both were attractive but one appealed to me much more than the other one and I took her for some dances first.
I asked her if she was open to meeting me outside the club and she was receptive and gave me her phone number.
Because I had agreed to get dances from both I then took the second dancer for a test run and she instantly hit me up for OTC but having been more interested in her friend I put her off. She insisted that we would have a good time but I told her no.
I did call the first one once but our schedules didn't mesh so I never saw her again.

A couple years later I'm in the same club and the dancer I had turned down before was back again for another night and she was looking great! Better than the other time and I was smitten by her and told her I wanted dances.
Her personality was much different than before though, she insisted that I pay her in advance and I resisted but she wouldn't dance without me paying her first so I paid for 1 dance just so I could get her alone to talk for a couple minutes. Her dance and attitude was cold/generic, not like the other time but I still asked her for an outside meet and she said she doesn't do that.
I reminded her of the other time when we first met and she told me she was burned by other guys and had bad experiences so those days were over. We sat there for a few minutes after the dance and nothing I said would change her mind so I gave up and chalked it up to 'oh well, life goes on'.

Back in 2007 my ATF (TUSCL gridget) developed multiple sclerosis. She had to quit her civie job as an EMT as well as dancing. Married an army dude in order to get his insurance benefits. She spent 2 weeks at Walter Reed Army hospital learning how to live with MS.

Awww Muddy -- you're just being "Righteous" (LOL!)

Yes.

@Viking’s experience is not uncommon. I’ve had girls start out really enthusiastic and willing to please early in their dancer career, but then run into them later on - often at different clubs, when they’re become jaded, burned out, and much less willing to do things like they used to. Come to think of it, that sounds like a wife!

i had one girl that did the opposite and became dirtier-she stopped taking showers before arriving at the club.

i managed to ask her about this. i forgot exactly what she said, but she said it with this big ass grin on her face. she used to be a good worker and fun, got burnt out and eventually not giving a shit and hated all her customers. after that talk she would quit and never came back to both clubs i knew she worked at.

They stop hoeing they retire.

Hoes be hoes.

I’ve done a couple of tried. But it didn’t last. Going clean often, meet a major loss of income. It’s hard to give up that money.

Yes. She got a “straight” job in teaching and had to be “a good girl.” My reply to was, “You always were.” Great person. Loved sex. A three-hole girl. Spent a lot of time (and money) with her OTC and ITC. Eventually quit dancing all together. Ten years and I haven’t found anyone as good or as personable (in this country).