What do you do when your atf gets territorial?

I know most of you hate me. Many have me on mute. Yet they can read this when they are not logged in.

I hope some will consider un muting me and give input. I think this happens to many men. Experienced mongers advice would be appreciated.

Many men that go to clubs are not strong in the social skills. Others are lonely and love the attention of a beautiful woman. Many are in hopeless relationships and can't get out because of kids or finances so they turn to this.

So those that have me on mute. Please consider commenting for the members here that could use your experienced voice.

Thank you.

Baristafan - Your post/topic is an interesting one, so per your request I will share my feedback on this subject with you as well as other members.
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“ She expects you to see her when you come to the club and will get jealous or upset if you don't pick her. “
^ I have had a few similar instances in the past and currently do as well. Just because I am super nice or else generous or maybe even appealing in looks for them …etc, many girls after our first interaction at the club/s ( locally and in Tijuana ) tend to become super territorial. Despite me being quite straightforward with them on my expectations from the very start. This makes it all a rather uncomfortable situation for our future hookups as I personally don’t like ties of any sort but they seem to always happen somehow.As such the way I usually like to handle it is by fluctuating my visits to different clubs on different days/times,so this way some time lapses in between and hopefully these girls will let go of me at their discretion ( but some girls still don’t as they can be very patient when it comes to liking you and you being a reliable catch for them emotionally and financially).
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“ Now she is your ATF. You don't want to lose her and you kind have become friends. “
^ A very true statement, and it happens as much I don’t want to admit it. Many of us that have been in this hobby for a while understand our actions leading to consequences, so we just need to man up and deal with it in a diplomatic way without being a prick. You’ll be amazed at how many girls appreciate honesty and diplomacy from a man despite knowing fully well that the reality may be the complete opposite of their expectations.
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“ Many men that go to clubs are not strong in the social skills. Others are lonely and love the attention of a beautiful woman. Many are in hopeless relationships and can't get out because of kids or finances so they turn to this. “
👆🏻May very well be true for some but not for all club goers. Some may simply be Players that enjoy the company of any and all beautiful women👍🏻

Is she going bare with all her clients?
Its normal to demand some exclusivity with bbfs.
The other stuff you mentioned of bbbj, daty and dfk, these are common enough services that shes not being special by offering them.

Since she can see other clients, you can also see other providers. Youre paying to see her each visit so its not fair to also ask you to be exclusive

. “ Lets say yiu have an ATF.
She provides all the services you want.
BBFS, BBBJ, DATY, DFK....
She is hot and fun and a cool personality. “
^ Not only ATF’s, but most bar girls nowadays ( atleast in Tijuana clubs ) are super competitive and DFK, BBBJ & DATY are usually a given. But BBFS is a very sensitive subject altogether and shouldn’t be mishandled as it can have some disastrous long term outcomes.It’s the same thing like playing Russian Roulette thinking the end result will always be in your favor. So, if you are a major risk taker, IMO you still need to proceed with extra caution and knowing fully well the consequences to follow 👍🏻

The situation can be difficult and is totally dependent on her attitude.
Best suggestion I've have so far is for her to see you with others.

Tell her to calm her tits down, she is owed nothing.

Same thing your would do if it was your wife.