I have been here during the day shift only a few days this month. On more than one occasion I've been the only customer.....which felt a bit creepy. The girls are friendly and extras are always on the table sometimes they jump right in in the middle of the third song...so its pretty much a sure thing. my question for everyone is :How do you feel when you're the only customer in the club in the middle of the afternoon on a weekday? I get feelings like "jeeze am I a loser or what?" interested what others think.
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last commentI don't know about this club specifically, but overall I don't give a fuck. I'm perfectly content being the only customer in the club as long as there are girls to keep me entertained. The problem I run into, is that if I'm the only dude in the club there's a strong chance there's not many girls.
It's always a bit of a chicken and egg problem, no girls cause there's no money & no money cause there's no girls. A well managed club can spur demand by offering specials of some sort, and spur supply by offering incentives to the girls to get them in. But many clubs seem unwilling or unable to to do so.
For me though, feeling like a loser cause I'm the only guy in the strip club isn't an issue for me. I'm not at the strip club to be seen or gain status. I'm there to relax, enjoy the scenery, maybe meet a friend to facilitate an intimate rendezvous outside the club. I'm usually there when it's convenient for me, I've got other priorities that usually occupy me during what would traditionally be busy strip club times. And frankly, I prefer the vibe when its less busy anyway.
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Yeah, a lot of customers feel awkward being the only one in the room. I learned that at this one club in South Dakota. Even though club furniture can sometimes be annoying or even downright awful if management is cool with them, it’s not really worth trying to chase them out the club. They have their useful place of making other random patrons feel comfortable. I learned over there that it’s fine to just keep talking to that one customer even though he only spent $100 and he’s pretty much done. Maybe it’s too indulgent for him, but that potential $1000 customer who walked in is less likely to just turn around and walk back to his car if he can just sit down for a couple minutes and allow himself to get comfortable in the room.
I’ve noticed on some slow shifts, some customers just get left alone and dancers just hang out on their phones. And some customers are able to facilitate a social hangout at their table and often they are just buying drinks. And then there is a whole spectrum of customers between those two categories who spend the bulk of their money on one or two dancers while the other dancers are either away groaning about their own lack of money or hanging out with “the group” as well. I feel like the customers who have the extroversion or whatever it is, will be more likely to have fun at a customer-empty clubs. (Note: this is not a judgement on any customer. I’ve noticed a lot of these extroverted cheapskate types are very good at making dancers feel good about themselves and validating their feelings. Some men would probably find that too emotionally exhausting to pull off.)
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(And some snarky person might say “durrr”, but I’ve read sooo many venting comments over the years against club furniture. And criticized fellow strippers for indulging furniture with any kind of attention. And even some online bragging about how they and some friends have teamed together to run the freeloader out of the club.)
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Interesting comments....I honestly feel a bit odd being the only customer.its not bout being "seen" as one of the commentors said....it just hits home that other people do shit during the day and I'm sitting by myself.....its a strange feeling. to be fair the girls dont hassle me...and in fact seem to spend time with me and are cool. a couple have told me really personal things about themselves and slipped out of stripper mode....maybe they were bored...? still to me it feels a bit strange and brings on an introspective vibe
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Being the only source of income in the club always makes me feel a bit awkward, kind of like being a lame wildebeest in the midst of a pride of lions, lol.
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I've been in there for 2 hours and the only customer....6 or 7 girls contemplating the hopelessness of life and drinking$7 waters.....how do this bar stay open during the day? someof the girls told me guys pop in...disappear into the VIP for 3 songs then straight out the door.....I wonder....what's going on in the backroom?
You would think the hustle would be nonstop, but really it isn't. They leave me alone in my misery, unless i want them to share it,,,,then itsall stickshifts and lap sitting... they're as bored as I am and see an op to make some cash.....which inevitably leads to dropping $150-$200....then I'M the dude heading straight out, lighter in the wallet, blinking and blinded by the Florida sun
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In an extras club, I kinda prefer a low customer ratio. I can quickly get the itch scratched by which ever is catching my eye.
In a "maybe" club I want a good amount of customers so that the girls stick around. The more people that are there, the harder it is to be noticed participating in sneaky activities.
In a lap damce only, I want that place to be packed to make sure as many girls are there as possible as I like to try 3-5 samples in a visit
@nicespice that's the first time I heard club furniture and I'm fucking dying lol
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